LGBTQ community needs to ask, “Who else will be there?”


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A few months ago, Governor Gina Raimondo hosted a meeting for members of the “LGBTQ community” at which no People of Color were present, because no People of Color were invited. Some attendees later reflected on their discomfort sitting in that meeting which was either intentionally or unintentionally (depending on your level of cynicism) racially-exclusive.

Some amount of dialogue emerged from this experience. It was wisely suggested, and I’ll paraphrase, that, “When LGBTQ people are invited to events, we need to start asking ‘Who else will be there?’” (Thank you, Jenn Steinfeld)

Still, in the last several months, organizations within the community continue to plan event after event with no POC participation and this is an trend in mainstream LGBTQ community events and organizations throughout the country.

In her book White Women, Race Matters: The Social Construction of Whiteness, author Ruth Frankenberg sought to examine this issue within the feminist community by posing the question, “What are the social processes through which white women are created as social actors primed to reproduce racism within the feminist movement?”

What if we rework that question to address the same issue in the LGBTQ community?

What are the social processes through which white members of the LGBTQ community are created as social actors primed to reproduce racism within the LGBTQ movement?

A major social process through which the LGBTQ community interacts is performance events such as musical events, comedy reviews, drag shows, annual festivals, etc. Surely there will be instances where it is impossible to incorporate an accurate cross-section of the community.

Sometimes interest is low and organizers have to book whatever performers they can get. Sometimes the number of performers is so limited that the ideal racial representation is not possible. These things are understandable. But when we see organizers of large-scale, mainstream events continue racial exclusivity year after year, we, as writer Aaron Talley put it, “continually swallow the complexities of being black and queer in this country into their narratives of restrictively safe whiteness.”

I am often reminded of the words of long-time Rhode Island Pride President Rodney Davis, “As we look around, noticing all the people who are with us, we must also ask ourselves, ‘Who is missing?'”

We are living in a time when racial awareness and social consciousness have been elevated to levels we haven’t seen in a generation. Let’s not wait until damage is done and people are left out to ask ourselves, “Who is missing?” Instead, let’s remind ourselves and each other to start asking “Who else will be there?” and let that inform our decisions as to what events we attend.

SCOTUS marriage equality decision celebrated in RI


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C Kelly Smith’s last Marriage Equality sign

Rhode Island’s celebration of the Supreme Court‘s historic decision allowing same-sex couples to marry across the United States was also a history lesson about the long battle for full LGBTQ acceptance in our state. Organizer Kate Monteiro spoke eloquently and introduced a steady stream of speakers, but more importantly she paused to remember those who didn’t live long enough to see this day, those who are only spoken of “in the echoes of the wind.”

We live in a better world because of their work and sacrifice.

The celebration was held at the Roger Williams National Memorial, because, explained Monteiro, this is where “religious freedom in the United States was born” and where Belle Pelegrino and the ’76ers first met to demand the right to march in Providence with a sign saying ‘I am gay.'”

“We stand at the top of a very, very high hill,” said Monteiro, “we have carried that pack and we have wanted for water and struggled and slipped and we stand at the top of a hill. And the view is beautiful. It is absolutely splendid. And just a little bit further is the next big hill. Because we are not at the top of the mountain, never mind the other side of the mountain.”

“Tomorrow, in 29 states, someone can be fired for being gay or lesbian, let alone transgender. (That, thank you, is 32 states)… That’s wrong, we need to change it, that is the mountain.”

“Can you imagine if we could go in time and bring Roger Williams here today?” asked Rodney Davis to laughs, “but when you boil it down and get to its purest sense, Freedom, Liberty and Justice was the reason why he came here…”

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Frank Ferri & Tony Caparco

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Marti Rosenberg
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Edie Ajello
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Jenn Steinfeld
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Seth Magaziner
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Rodney Davis
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Jorge Elorza

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Kate Monteiro

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