Rhode Island Religious Leaders Stand Up For Love


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On Sunday Rev. Geoffrey Black, general minister and president of the United Church of Christ, and Rev. Peter Morales, president of the Unitarian Universalist Association spoke at a rally at the First Unitarian Church in Providence on Benefit St. Though opponents of marriage equality often cloak their arguments in dogmatic, Bible-inspired rhetoric it is important to remember that there is another, more progressive religious voice that fully supports marriage rights for all citizens.

Here’s a video from the event, courtesy of Rhode Islanders United for Marriage:

Warwick City Council Endorses Marriage Equality


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The Warwick City Council last night became the latest to endorse marriage equality. By doing so, the Council joins a very long list that includes mayors, municipalities, churches, religious leaders, the governor, the House of Representatives and a majority of Rhode Islanders. In other words, pretty much the entire state except the Catholic Church and the state Senate.

“We deeply appreciate the Warwick City Council’s endorsement of the marriage equality legislation sponsored by Senator Nesselbush,” said Ray Sullivan, the campaign director for Rhode Islanders United for Marriage. “Along with similar resolutions from the Providence and East Providence councils, and the support of the mayors of Central Falls, Cumberland, North Providence, Pawtucket, Providence and Warwick, this is a powerful demonstration of strong grassroots support for allowing all loving, committed couples the freedom to marry in our communities.”

Thanks in part to a strong outreach effort by the Warwick Progressive Democrats, a new liberal coalition in the West Bay city, the Council unanimously adopted the resolution.

This is a great day for Warwick,” said Jeremy Rix, the city coordinator of the Warwick Progressive Democrats. “A unanimous city council has resolved that all people, regardless of sexual orientation, are entitled to the legal rights and social recognition of marriage, and urges the passage of Senate Bill 38. Thank you to the city council, the dozens who attended and shared personal stories and information on legal rights, and all who have contributed toward this moment through acts as small as discussing the need for equality with a previously unconvinced acquaintance.”

According to the Providence Journal, some 70 people showed up for the debate. For comparison, the local media highlighted that some 100 people attended a hearing on the master lever at the State House last week.

The ProJo reported on Monday that the state Senate may soon leave the Catholic Church as the last big local institution to oppose same sex marriage – or, at least, Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed said she would allow the issue to come up for a vote this month.

 

MassResistance Asks NOM To Back Hate Speech


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Senator Metts and Brian Camenker

When asked directly by Joe Siegel back in 2009 if NOM-RI is a hate group, Christopher Plante, who runs the local affiliate of the anti marriage equality group NOM (National Organization for Marriage) said, “I don’t believe that at all. Do I think that there are extreme people on both sides of the movement that can say hateful things? Absolutely. NOM is here to defend marriage, to protect it, and to encourage it.”

In recent months, as marriage equality in Rhode Island edges ever closer to passage and NOM becomes more desperate, Plante has become less picky about being seen as a hate group. As I have documented time and again, Plante has teamed up with Brian Camenker of MassResistance, an actual, certified Southern Poverty Law Center hate group. The Faith Alliance, which includes both NOM-RI and MassResistance as key members, is a coalition of several anti-marriage equality groups including Latino evangelical church leaders, the Knights of Columbus and the Catholic Diocese of Rhode Island.

To give them the benefit of a doubt, it is quite possible that the leaders of the various groups were unaware of the extreme nature of Camenker and MassResistance. Christopher Plante and NOM-RI however, can no longer claim ignorance as their defense.

Zack Ford, writing for ThinkProgress, reports, “In a recent Tea Party Unity conference call, Brian Camenker of the anti-gay hate group MassResistance challenged NOM President Brian Brown about this selective language use, asking why NOM doesn’t just admit that homosexuality is a ‘perversion.'”

On the call, Camenker was upset that NOM’s strategy in court focuses on the value of traditional marriage and does not include attacks on LGBTQ relationships as being illegitimate and “perverse.” Camenker is essentially calling on NOM to embrace anti-LGBTQ hate speech as a tactic.

NOM President Brian Brown, a staunch Catholic, is not adverse to the idea on principle, but his strategy is all about the courts, and as he puts it, “…it’s not likely that a stronger argument about homosexuality is really going to shift [Supreme Court Justice] Kennedy.”

Still, Brown does not advise Camenker to tone down his hateful rhetoric. Instead, Brown encourages Camenker’s actions, saying, “…different groups need to do different things, not all groups have to do the same thing. So folks that are taking a harder line in focusing more on homosexuality, there need to be different groups doing different things.”

As Ford points out, “If NOM is encouraging other groups to be harsher opponents of homosexuality just so it can save face, it’s no less responsible for it in the end.”

I would add that locally, here in Rhode Island, all the members of the Faith Alliance can be held equally responsible for the anti-LGBTQ lies being spread at the Judiciary Committee meetings held at the General Assembly recently.  More than one witness based their testimony on Camenker’s pamphlet What same-sex “marriage” has done to Massachusetts a hateful collection of lies and partial truths written by Camenker and distributed at the large anti-LGBTQ rallies held in the State House rotunda and distributed to every member of the General Assembly by MassResistance.

The anti-LGBTQ coalition here in Rhode Island hides behind their “traditional values” rhetoric even as it encourages and wallows in Camenker and Plante’s hateful attacks on same-sex families and LGBTQ individuals. Such behavior is grossly inappropriate and calls into question the true motives of everyone involved with the Faith Alliance. Indeed, keeping company with bigots may lead other leaders of anti-LGBTQ groups to start telling lies themselves.

Marriage Not Only Issue For LGBTQ Community


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With the words “marriage equality” on the minds and tongues of thousands of passionate progressives, in Little Rhodey and the rest of the nation, we must remind ourselves that LGBT folks face a variety of other important issues.

Sadly, studies have shown that LGBT people are 2 to 4 times as likely to commit suicide, which speaks to the severe lack of protection, support, and resources available to my community.  Bisexual and transgender individuals have been largely ignored, in both straight and gay circles, (which became increasingly obvious during the repeal of DADT), and statistics measuring their mental/physical well-being reflect this.  Moreover, while federal laws protect workers from being discriminated against because of their race, religion, sex, age, national origin, and disability, they can still be fired for their sexual orientation or gender identity.

Despite the optimistic “It Gets Better” mantra/movement, it gets worse:  LGBT people can be evicted because of their sexual orientation or gender identity in 29 states.  Seven states still ban adoption by same-sex couples.  Nearly half of all homeless youth identify as LGBT, and the most prevalent reason for their homelessness is family rejection.

In an abusive same-sex relationship?  Well, good luck!  According to a study by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, 45% of LGBT victims were turned away when they sought assistance from a domestic violence shelter. Over half of those who filed for protection orders were denied them.  This is rather disturbing, given the results of a 2010 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention survey:  61% of bisexual women and 44% of lesbian women reported intimate partner violence.

With all of our focus on same-sex marriage, it is essential to avoid putting these conversations on the back burner.  Speaking as a bisexual woman in a long-term relationship with another bisexual woman,  I know from experience how challenging it is to remain healthy, strong, confident, and safe, in the face of homophobic attitudes, hostile work environments, and much worse.  If we think that our work is done because marriage equality has been won, we are terribly mistaken.

And on that note, my friends and allies, as the season of Pride approaches, check out some wonderful events happening in the Ocean State this month:

April 3 PFLAG of Greater Providence meeting, 6:45-8:45 p.m. The Met School, 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571.

April 5 Luna’s Ladies Night, 9 p.m. Roots Cultural Center, 276 Westminster St., Providence.
Live music, DJ, special events. 21+ $6 cover. See www.lunaspvd.com.

April 7 RI Pride Triple Crown Pageant, 7-10 p.m. Providence Biltmore Hotel, 11 Dorrance St.  Doors open at 6 p.m. For more information & tickets see www.prideri.com, or
e-mail Info@prideri.com.

April 14 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7p.m. Social and networking for gay and bisexual men 40+.
Social, dinner and meeting. www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010.

April 16 Borderlands 7-9 p.m. A peer-led support group open to transgender, transsexual, gender-variant, and intersex people and to those who are questioning. Meeting location is withheld for participant privacy. See info@tginetwork.org for more info.

April 25 RI GLADHour: Happy Hour for Fans of LGBT Equal Justice 6-8:30 p.m. Ri Ra Irish Pub. Complimentary hors d’oeuvres • Hear from Janson Wu, GLAD Staff Attorney, about GLAD’s ground-breaking work for marriage equality in Rhode Island

Tobin Urges State To Wait For Marriage Equality


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Marriage Equality in Rhode Island is going to happen.

The forces fighting against the rising tide of love and equality are starting to realize this. Yesterday election forecasting wunderkind Nate Silver had a piece in the New York Times that crunched the numbers and came to a conclusion that should give pause to opponents: marriage equality is almost certain to be the law of the land in the United States by 2020.

Knowing that this battle cannot be won leaves opponents of marriage equality with nothing but tactics that will delay the inevitable. Hence today’s press release from Bishop Thomas Tobin of the Providence Diocese. Tobin knows that society is moving past his medieval views on the subject one way or the other. Nate Silver demonstrates that merely the turnover in population is enough to make the acceptance of gay marriage inevitable as the older generation is replaced with its younger, more tolerant descendants. No one needs to change their minds on the issue for marriage equality to eventually dominate public opinion.

Tobin said:

In light of the historic deliberations of the U.S. Supreme Court on same-sex marriage, it would be appropriate for the General Assembly of Rhode Island to defer any action on this critical issue for the time being. Any legislative action that is taken now could very well be rendered completely null and void by the decision of the Supreme Court expected this June. It is likely that the Supreme Court will decide this matter for us, one way or another. Let’s wait to see what the highest court of the land says about this issue which is so very important to many Rhode Islanders.

Asking the General Assembly to put the issue off until the Supreme Court decides the case this summer essentially scuttles the bill. If the Supreme Court were to issue a wide ruling making marriage equality the law nationwide, perhaps little would be lost. But the Court might decide to narrowly rule on Prop 8, limiting the decision to California, which effectively delays marriage equality in Rhode Island for another year.

That’s right, another year of State House rallies, all night House and Senate Judiciary Committee meetings rehashing the same arguments from both sides of the issue, and more division and hostility in our state.

Here is the response from Rev. Gene Dyszlewski, chair of the Religious Coalition for Marriage Equality:

With all due respect to His Excellency, neither case before the Supreme Court has any bearing on the decision of the General Assembly to make marriage available to all loving, committed couples in Rhode Island,” said Rev. Dyszlewski. “This is another in a long string of delay tactics — seeking to stall the strong momentum of marriage equality legislation — by those who oppose allowing all families to access the dignity and respect of marriage. The fact is, no decision issued by the Court will render ‘null and void’ any state legislature’s ability to grant the freedom to marry to all its citizens.

“We respect the Senate process, and are appreciative the Judiciary Committee is continuing to consider the testimony from last week’s unprecedented 12-hour long hearing. We are still engaging in thoughtful and productive conversations with all members of the Senate.
“This is a holy week for many Rhode Islanders, as we gather around Seder tables and paschal candles. I, for one, will pray for our elected leaders in the General Assembly, that they may hear God’s call to love one another, as He loves us.”

Tobin made some news a couple of weeks ago when he came out in favor of Senator Ciccone’s bill that would put the issue on the ballot. Once again, Tobin seeks only to delay the inevitable. The bill could not be placed on the ballot until the next election, and even if the bill were to pass, Tobin promises to “vigorously oppose efforts to redefine the institution of marriage in Rhode Island.”

Let’s face it, Tobin won’t change his mind on this issue by popular vote. The vigorous opposition may come in the form of judicial challenges that might delay the implementation of marriage quality for many more years, or with the endless introduction of bills that might seek to impose limits on same-sex marriage.

An honest player in public debate presents his or her case earnestly and forcibly, depending on the process to arrive at the best possible outcome. Gaming the system with last minute bills to place the issue on the ballot or suggesting the issue be tabled pending a Supreme Court decision is simply political theater calculated to stymie and delay the process to the detriment of everyone.

This issue demands a clean up or down vote from the Senate.

A Glimpse Into The Future For Marriage Equality


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Dateline: June, 2023.

Governor Frank Ferri is headlining a small event at the State House celebrating the 10th anniversary of the SCOTUS decision striking down DOMA and California’s bad on gay marriage. Gov. Ferri gives a brief statement commemorating the occassion, and the handful of activists who fought so hard for equality here a decade ago offer him some subdued applause, and then everyone moves on to more pressing matters of the day.

A cub reporter for Cumulus RI (which ceased being known as WPRO shortly after Ron St. Pierre was let go) asks a veteran Providence Journal reporter what the governor is going on about. “Gay marriage,” Kathy Gregg growls at the newbie.

What about it, thought the recent graduate of the University in Rhode Island? The 22-year-old vaguely remembers when the 501c4 group the Coalition of Payday Loan Sharks for Bibilical Dogma tried to make it an issue when Ferri first ran for governor … but John DePetro was the only member of the media to even mention it, and his show had long ago been pushed back to the 1 to 4 am slot.

The vendor who sells pizza at the State House notices the bewilderment in the Smith Hill rookie, and decides to confer some wisdom on the cub reporter.

“Hey kid,” he beckons. “I know no one cares anymore if people of the same gender fall in love and want to marry each other, but time was this was a big deal in this building. Unfortunately, we didn’t realize it wasn’t a big deal to anyone outside of this building other than a couple crazies who kept confusing their Bible with our Constitution.”

“What do you mean ‘we,'” inquires the cub reporter.

“I used to be a legislator here,” the pizza man proudly exclaims. “When my constituents voted me out of office, the Christian Caucus helped me get the exclusive contract to sell slices here on Smith Hill.”

“There used to be a Christian caucus!?!,” said the cub reporter, completely surprised that such a coalition could ever exist in modern American government. The reporter, born in 2001, had heard such rumors that politicians used to read from the Bible and that women couldn’t vote and even there were separate bathroom facilities for people whose ancestors were from different continents, but she had figured that had all happened during the dark ages of America.

“Sure,” said the pizza man. “And we were real powerful, too. We all got quickly voted out of office in 2014, but Monsignor Camenker made sure we all got good jobs in government.”

He gestures towards the Catholic Church’s well-known State House lobbyist/nun/lawyer.

“Take, for example, Sister Teresa,” the pizza man tells the cub reporter. “She never got to be a judge like she always wanted, and she didn’t get to take any credit for Newport’s booming wedding economy, but she’ll always have a place inside the State House sticking up for the church.”

Metts Opposes Marriage Equality On ‘Biblical Principles’

Senator Harold Metts, Bible in Hand

Judge Ronald R Lagueux, in his ruling in Ahlquist v. City of Cranston that removed the prayer banner from the walls of the auditorium at Cranston High School West, described the Cranston School Committee’s open meetings to discuss the prayer banner as at times having the tenor of “a religious revival.”

This is something those who have followed the testimony before the House and Senate Judiciary Committees on the subject of Marriage Equality can understand as the debate seems to center not on issues of secular laws in a secular government, but on whether our laws should be based upon certain individual’s narrow understanding of Biblical law.

Senator Frank Lombardi, who served on the Cranston School Board during the Prayer Banner kerfuffle and was one of the prayer banner’s most vocal defenders, drew an active comparison to the issue of Marriage Equality and the issue of the Prayer Banner, as did several witnesses and Senator Harold Metts. Since that time in Cranston, no sense of doubt about the rightness of mixing church and state has entered Lombardi’s mind, despite Judge Lagueux’s reasoned and eloquent decision. Responding to the testimonies of Chris and Kara Young, Ronald L’Heureux and Michael Krzywonos at Thursday night’s hearing Lombardi said, “We can’t defrock ourselves of our religious beliefs.”

Ron L’Heureux, a minister with New Life Worship Center, has, according to Senator Metts, supplied him with fascinating historical material about the founding fathers and religious liberty. The problem is that L’Heureux is a follower of pseudo-historian David Barton, who has fabricated a false history of the United States recasting the founders as Christian ideologues intent on establishing some sort of Christian theocracy that is at best “tolerant” of dissenting religious opinions. L’Heureux closed his testimony by addressing Senator Lombardi directly, assuring him that L’Heureux has filed a brief in Ahlquist v Cranston to have Judge Lagueux’s decision overturned. That’s right, L’Heureux is still quixotically fighting the Cranston Prayer Banner issue.

Senator Metts is no fool. He waited until Governor Lincoln Chafee delivered his testimony, then, with the Governor fixed in his seat as a captive audience and the news cameras rolling in time for the six o’clock news, Metts went into his first long speech of the night. Right away, Metts brought up his religion, saying, “I’m a sinner saved by grace and I come before you with great humility.”

Those who value the separation of church and state and a secular society found themselves wondering what this could possibly have to do with the issue before the committee. The comments by Metts were not simply out of place, they were inappropriate.

Metts went on to say that he is undaunted by the calls and emails he has received over the years that refer to him as a religious bigot. He maintained that in America, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion and to religious liberty. Not satisfied with talking up his religion, Metts challenged the very idea that Marriage Equality is a civil rights issue.

“Many in my community take exception to the gay rights activists that hitch their wagon to the civil rights movement as it pertains to African Americans. What I tell people is that I can change my sexual preference tonight if I want to but I can’t change my color. What people do in the privacy of their bedrooms can never be compared to what African Americans went through in slavery.”

As Katrina Chaves pointed out yesterday, in covering the Supreme Court hearing on California’s Prop 8, African American Pastor Rev. Bill Owens made the same sort of comparison at an anti gay marriage rally. Chaves concluded that, “engaging in ‘Oppression Olympics’ serves absolutely no one.”

Metts talked about the fall of Rome and Greece being due to “moral decay.” He mourned the loss of Ten Commandment displays and mandatory prayers in public schools. Metts also said that those who claim the Bible is outdated and no longer applies are committing, in his opinion, blasphemy.

“My main opposition to this bill,” said Metts, “is based on Biblical principles.”

When not striking a strident religious tone, Metts sometimes came off as strangely paranoid and loopy. “The nations that follow God’s word will be blessed and those who rejected it were cursed. Need I remind you of the Babylonian captivity in ancient Israel? I’ll probably be gone by then but I certainly don’t want my grandchildren to be taken into captivity in China or elsewhere.”

Not for the last time did Metts talked about the redeeming power of Jesus. At several points during the long night of testimony Metts would take the time to make long, digressive rambles about his religious convictions, at times holding up and reading directly from his Bible, which he assured us all he reads every morning and every night, every day of the year.

“Even if we live to be a hundred years old, we’re only on this side of eternity for a short time,” said Metts during one of his long digressions, “It’s the other side of eternity we should be concerned with.” Later in the same speech, Metts compared the battle over Marriage Equality to “a cosmic battle between God and Satan, and whether we like it or not, we’re part of it.”

An elected state Senator regaling the crowd with frankly childish mythologies about a cosmic battle between God and Satan for human souls in the context of a hearing about marriage equality should be worrisome enough for anyone concerned about liberty of conscience and the separation of church and state, but the most alarming moment came later when Senator Metts made the following comment to Senator Juan Pichardo, a supporter of Marriage Equality:

“Senator Pichardo, we’re good buddies, and [marriage equality] is probably the only issue we disagree on. The problems you cited in society, the problem is that the further we move away from this [Metts held up his Bible] the more problems you’re going to see. When you align with scripture, that’s when you see things get a little bit better.”

Metts might disagree with Pichardo on the issue of equality, but in calling for a theocratic form of government based on the Bible instead of our current system of secular democracy Metts is demonstrating a disagreement with the entire system of American government and the oath he took to uphold the Constitution when he was sworn into office.

What is the difference, aside from the title of the book involved, between Metts’ view of a government based on his Bible and a fundamentalist Muslim advocating for Sharia law? One answer is that Metts can get elected as a Christian fundamentalist, but no Muslim with comparable views would stand a chance. Recall that Metts considers denigrating the Bible to be blasphemy. The Biblical punishment for blasphemy is death.

Can Metts really want our society to align with Biblical scripture? Such an idea is barbaric.

Later, after listening to a story from Jen Saarinen, a concerned high school teacher worried that feelings of inferiority might take hold in LGBTQ students concerned about their second class status as citizens in a state without Marriage Equality, and about the effects of bullying on LGBTQ teens, Metts claimed that as an educator with 31 years of experience, he felt the rules of the school protected everyone, and though he had to protect many students, they “really never had that problem back then.” That problem being LGBTQ kids being bullied.

This of course, is a classic tactic in the fight against rules in public schools that add sexual preference and gender identification to race, religion, disability and other identifiers of diversity that need to be protected against bigotry and bullying. Brian Camenker of MassResistance, a friend and ally of Metts, constantly rails against new codes that might protect LGBTQ students.

Metts’ solution to the problem of bullying is as predictable as it is fatuous. “I wonder if there’s a correlation to when they took the Ten Commandments out of public buildings. I wonder if there’s a correlation when they took prayer out of the schools. I wonder if there’s a correlation as we try to remove God from his creation that we had the Columbine and the other tragedies. So these are some of the things that I see.” Metts added that he has seen kids in schools “chastised for their religious beliefs, and that shouldn’t happen either.” Metts provided no examples of the ongoing bullying that Christian kids receive in schools, or any evidence that Christian kids are on the receiving end of more bullying than LGBTQ kids.

In my own testimony before the committee I tried to make the point that religious concerns are incidental to the question at hand. Marriage equality is a secular issue, and all questions as to whether it violates someone’s religious beliefs are beside the point. I said that the ideas that “homosexuality is an abomination” or that “marriage equality is God’s will” are unimportant. The two positions not only talk at cross-purposes and to no avail, but to a Humanist/atheist like myself the two positions are equally nonsensical.

Metts replied to my testimony by completely missing my point. Metts proceeded to read the Bible to me, specifically the Gospel of Matthew 14:4-5. I wonder if Metts would have thought it appropriate to read from his holy book if someone declared their Jewish or other non-Christian beliefs? In point of fact, Metts avoided going after any other non-Christians directly. Metts reserved his highhanded Christian authoritarianism for the first person who identified as an atheist. This is in itself a form of Christian privilege and bullying, the kind that Metts denies happens in public schools.

Metts is an active supporter of the Faith Alliance, a group I have identified time and again as being at least in part an anti-LGBTQ hate group due to its inclusion of Brian Camenker’s MassResistance. Metts named checked the Faith Alliance as he complemented Pastor David Rodriguez, one of the architects of the group. I’m sure Metts sees the Faith Alliance as operating without hate, and would certainly repudiate the views of Brian Camenker if given the chance. On the other hand, here’s a photo of Metts and Camenker taken during the ant-Marriage Equality Rally back in January. They seem like good friends.

Senator Metts and Brian Camenker

Though it did not seem like it at the time, perhaps I affected Metts with my testimony after all, as an hour after I left the building he brought me up in a rambling, nearly incoherent eight minute long religious sermon. Metts’ speech was a blatant and embarrassing display of Senatorial privilege and religious entitlement. Referring to the written testimony I handed in, Metts said:

“The Humanist/atheist said that maybe there’s 37% of the population classify themselves as nonbelievers. Well I’m not surprised by that because what happened was that they took the Ten Commandments out of the school they took the prayers out of the school and if you’re a Christian kid in school today, you’re chastised… If anybody is chastised, it’s Christians!

Playing off the testimony of another speaker, Metts continued, “You know, the whole notion of looking to government to justify sin, that resonated because we’re all sinners. We know that.”

Then, in case anyone was wondering how Deacon Metts became so expert in the minutia of God’s will and the truth of his particular form of Christianity, Metts kindly explained:

“As far as knowing God’s word, how I know God’s word is, I study it. Bible study. I’ve got a guide in the back of my Bible. I start January 1st, the Old Testament in the morning and the New Testament at night and at the end of the year I’ve read the whole Bible. I’ve been doing it for years.”

Just to be clear, this lesson on religion was paid for by Rhode Island taxpayers, on Rhode Island taxpayers’ time.

Metts believes that when he needs to know something, “God will reveal it to me in scripture.”

Metts then went on to make his second impassioned case for Jesus Christ. “When we accept Christ we are all indwelled by the Holy Spirit and if we tap into that power, that’s how we interpret scripture…. The whole goal of reading scripture is to become Christ-like… God loves the sinner but he hates the sinner, and the only way we can get that sin off of us is to accept Jesus.”

Metts ended his tirade with more than a tinge of paranoia. “Up in Canada, with the hate speech, if I read scripture against homosexuals, I could end up in jail. So now everything came out the closet, and they’re trying to put the Christians in the closet. I’m not going in the closet for no one.”

Twice during the long night of testimony Metts attempted to make a comment in response to a witness, and then shut down the witnesses’ ability to respond. The first time came when he was speaking to Jen Saarinen, the High School teacher concerned with LGBTQ bullying, and the second time was to John Reilly, an Evangelical who apologized for the behavior of some of the Christians opposed to Marriage Equality. The video shows Metts angrily and unsuccessfully trying to get Committee Chair Michael McCaffrey to stop Reilly from talking back to him. These assertions of Senatorial privilege, even though in both cases Metts was unable to silence the witnesses, is unfortunate in a country and state that values freedom of expression.

John Reilly was far from the only person to counter the views of Metts in his testimony. Rabbi Barry Dolinger, the youngest Rabbi in the Rhode Island, representing an Orthodox Judaism that firmly rejects homosexual marriage, nonetheless believes that marriage equality is a secular issue. Just as he does not want laws passed that would restrict his ability to practice his faith the way he sees fit, so does he also understand the necessity of allowing people of other faiths (and no faith) to practice (or not practice) as they see fit.

Rabbi Dolinger strongly supports marriage equality, taking a brave stance for true religious liberty and liberty of conscience, one that Senator Metts and other conservative Christian leaders (including Bishop Thomas Tobin of the Providence Catholic Diocese) should take note of.

Dolinger pointed out that his people have been the historical victims of religious persecution for centuries, culminating in the holocaust, but he also pointed out what many might see as lesser slights against his people. Dolinger explained that his parents were forced to pray Christian prayers when they went to public schools. These would be the same sort of Christian prayer that Senator Lombardi fought so hard for when he was on the Cranston School Committee and Senator Metts laments the removal of.

Rabbi Dolinger rebuked Metts directly with the following passage from his testimony:

“I don’t want to believe anything that anyone wants me to believe. If I did that I’d have to be a Catholic in the State of Rhode Island and have to do all sorts of other things but I’m not! I don’t believe in Jesus, and I’m not gonna. And I don’t want anybody telling me I’m going to do that, so I’m not going to tell anyone else that because I wouldn’t marry them that they can’t get married.”

Rabbi Dolinger closed his powerful and compelling testimony by reading from George Washington’s letter to the Touro Synagogue. Washington, in describing not only the United States but also Rhode Island’s key place within the Union said that our government “to bigotry gives no sanction, to persecution no assistance- but generously afford(s) to all Liberty of conscience and immunities of Citizenship.”

Many took Senator Metts and other Christian and Catholic fundamentalists to task for their intransigence on the issue, including Reverend Gene Dyszlewski, Reverend Duane Clinker, Rabbi Amy Levin, Rabbi Peter Stein and more. The clerics offered a mix of religious and secular arguments, and presented a welcome counterpoint to the intolerant drumbeat of Senator Metts, Pastors like Jay Stirnemann who stunned the crowd when he told Senator Stephen Archambault, “You don’t know God, sir!” and the omnipresent Father Healey, lobbyist for the Providence Catholic Diocese.

The downside of this kind of debate within the chambers of the State House is gives the false impression that the State House is the place for this kind of debate.

It is not.

Certainly it is difficult for people to leave their deeply held religious convictions at the door when entering into government service, but if, as Frank Lombardi maintained, you cannot “defrock yourself” of these beliefs or as Metts later claimed, “I don’t know if I can separate myself from my religion. I cannot cut myself in half” then perhaps government service is beyond the abilities of some people.

At one point in the long night of testimony Senator (or should I call him Deacon?) Metts quoted Jesus as having said “Render unto Caesar what is Caesar’s and render unto God what is God’s” to which conservative Pastor Jay Stirnemann said, “I pay my taxes.”

Isn’t it amazing that Jesus, who spoke in parables that are interpreted and reinterpreted and used to justify any manner of beliefs, in this one case was speaking quite clearly only on tax law? Is it not possible that Jesus was explaining that there is a natural separation between Caesar (government) and God (religion)?

Even Rabbi Dolinger gets this, and he’s never gonna believe in Jesus.

Supreme Court Considers Marriage Equality Debate


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What a day for the LGBT community!

The Supreme Court heard challenges to California’s Proposition 8 today, and tomorrow it will hear arguments against the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).  (The audio and transcript , if you have time to check them out!)

Let’s hope that Chief Justice John Roberts kept his gay cousin in mind during the Prop 8 argument, as she was in attendance with her partner, in seats reserved for guests of the justices.

Four Democratic senators reversed their stance on DOMA in the past several days, but unfortunately, not everyone sees the significance of this civil rights issue and have a change of heart.  There are many who refuse to even call it a “civil rights” issue.  What happened at the RI State House last week played out once more near the Supreme Court today, at an anti-gay marriage rally, when African-American pastor Rev. Bill Owens said, “I marched in this same location years ago.  They are trying to say they are suffering the same thing we suffered. They are not. … Not even close.”

Engaging in “Oppression Olympics” serves absolutely no one, and I am grateful to see public displays of solidarity in all communities across the country, and a million examples of Love for every hateful word spoken.

Fine Line Between Hate Group And ‘Faith Alliance’


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Last week, while waiting at the State House in the long line that formed to give testimony at the Senate Judiciary Marriage Equality bill hearing, I decided to check out the website of MassResistance, a group instrumental in the loud, raucous anti-Marriage Equality rally held when the House took testimony on the issue back in January and who repeated that performance for the Senate.

MassResistance, for those who don’t know, is a Southern Poverty Law Center certified anti-LGBTQ hate group headed by bigot and homophobe Brian Camenker, who just this February compared school administrators who support LGBTQ students to “Nazi concentration camp guards” and claimed that homosexuals don’t actually exist.

Imagine my surprise when State Senator Frank Lombardi, a Democrat from Cranston who sits on the Senate Judiciary Committee and an opponent of Marriage Equality, was interviewed on the MassResistance website:

Last week MassResistance spoke with Sen. Frank Lombardi (D-Cranston), one of the committee members. Sen. Lombardi, who supports traditional marriage, predicted the vote of the 10-member committee would be a tie — meaning the bill dies. But he acknowledged that it’s is only his best speculation.

I was surprised that Lombardi would consent to an interview on the website of a hate group, and wrote up a quick piece about this for RI Future from my iPad. It’s tough to format blog posts from my iPad for this site, so I asked my editor, Bob Plain, to put the finishing touches on the piece and post it. He did so, but in the process we lost the link to the MassResistance website where Senator Lombardi’s comments could be found.

In the “middle of the night” Bob received a phone call from from Senator Lombardi’s office informing him that the article I wrote was inaccurate. Senator Lombardi was claiming that he never spoke to MassResistance. Bob pulled the post pending confirmation of my source.

I conferred with Bob and sent him the link to the MassResistance website, showing that the story was accurate insomuch as MassResistance was claiming Lombardi talked to them, which Lombardi denied doing.  Obviously either MassResistance or Frank Lombardi was not being honest.

Lombardi denied talking to MassResistance, but acknowledged giving an interview to the Faith Alliance. The Faith Alliance has among its members a fair number of Evangelical churches, the Providence Catholic Diocese, the Knights of Columbus, NOM-RI and MassResistance. State Senator Harold Metts, a Democrat from Providence a member of the Senate Judiciary Committee with Lombardi, spoke at the January State House Rally in support of the Faith Alliance.

This raises some interesting questions.

Is the Faith Alliance merely an arm of MassResistance? If the unidentified writer of the piece on the MassResistance blog (I’m guessing it’s Camenker) can call people up and identify as the Faith Alliance for the purpose of interviews, doesn’t this indicate that MassResistance believes that it  speaks for all Faith Alliance members?

If MassResistance in truth cannot claim to speak for its various members, such as the Knights of Columbus and the Catholic Church, why resort to such a subterfuge when speaking to Senator Lombardi? Could it be that Camenker knows that being associated with his toxic hate group is politically poisonous and that no savvy politician would consent to talk to him otherwise?

I said way back in January, when MassResistance first entered our state and helped to form the Faith Alliance that aligning with such an odious hate group is “disgraceful.”  I later called upon Bishop Tobin to repudiate the ugly comments and hateful views of MassResistance and Brian Camenker, something the Bishop or his spokesmen have declined to do.

It is obvious why religious groups and politicians have no wish to be associated with a group like MassResistance. Their opposition to marriage equality, they say, is based on his deep commitment to faith, not on anti-LGBTQ bigotry.

The problem, of course, is that they have aligned themselves with the Faith Alliance. And the Faith Alliance, it seems, is MassResistance.

I’m reminded of an old saying about laying down with dogs…

Sen. Lombardi Interviewed On Anti-LGBT Website


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State Senator Frank Lombardi (D-Cranston), is expected to be a strong “no” vote on S0038, the Marriage Equality bill to be heard during tonight’s Senate Judiciary committee hearing. In the past he has related his vote to his strong Catholicism, but last week he was interviewed by MassResistance, an anti-LGBT hate group as identified by the Southern Poverty Law Center.

[Editor’s Note: Sen. Lombardi denies speaking with MassResistance about last night’s hearing. He said he spoke with someone from the Faith Alliance of Rhode Island. MassResistance, on its website, said he spoke with them. MassResistance is a member of the Faith Alliance of RI, as is the Catholic Church. ]

“Last week MassResistance spoke with Sen. Frank Lombardi (D-Cranston), one of the committee members. Sen. Lombardi, who supports traditional marriage, predicted the vote of the 10-member committee would be a tie — meaning the bill dies. But he acknowledged that it’s is only his best speculation.”

Lombardi also expressed concern that a second bill, S0708, which would put equality on the ballot and up for popular vote but also contains broadly worded and unconstitutional “protections” to preserve the rights of religious folks to discriminate against LGBT persons in their places of business is a “back door” attempt to slip Marriage Equality into law. Needless to say Lombardi opposes any bill that might conceivably acknowledge LGBT rights.

For his part, Brian Camenker, the Voldemort of MassResistance, is once more going to darken Rhode Island with his presence and plans to testify at tonight’s hearings. He promises that FAPSMEG, aka the Faith Alliance, http://www.psmarriagebygodri.com/index.html is planning an even bigger presence than last time.
Tonight should be quite a party.

RI Show Up In Force For Marriage Equality


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Rhode Islanders line up to testify, 3-to-1 in favor of same-sex marriage.

The State House was packed with supporters and, yes, opponents of marriage equality. While the Senate Judiciary Committee was hearing testimony for and against the bill, they were also hearing the horde of supporters and protestors gathered in the rotunda echoing throughout the marble halls.

Supporters of same-sex marriage sang songs like Marching on the Side of Love, Amazing Grace, and Let it Shine, it seems the opposition could only muster a din of  “No,No, No!” The chants and songs became deafening as the group in the rotunda grew. There were a surprisingly large contingency of Latinos within the ranks of those opposed to same sex marriage.

More than 650 people signed up to testify on the bill. There were many more outside the hearing room. The crowd in the rotunda spilled onto the second and third floor balconies as the din of what seemed like a sermon against gay marriage echoed through the marble halls of the State House. Funny, hate speech sounds just about the same in any language.

Some within RIUnited spoke of a young transgendered man that was vilified and brought to tears by the predominantly Latino crowd in the rotunda. At one point, I waded into the crowd and shot this video. You can see the hate in this woman’s eyes.

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I guess the lesson here is, when you don’t have a rational, cogent argument, be as loud as you possibly can.

Before the fracas in the rotunda began, I caught up with Ray Sullivan, former State Representative, and current campaign director for Rhode Islanders United for Marriage Equality. He had this to say:

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Our LGBTQ Prejudices: 1960’s Vs. Today


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CBS’s Mike Wallace on America’s perception of the LGBTQ community in 1969. What will future documentaries show about us?

In 1969, venerable CBS reporter Mike Wallace reported “Two out of three Americans look upon homosexuals with disgust, discomfort or fear. A CBS News public opinion survey indicates that sentiment is against permitting homosexual relationship among consenting adults without legal punishment.” (13:40 in this documentary about the Stonewall riots in Greenwich Village that year)

At the time in United States, mainstream medicine, media and culture thought being gay could be cured with drugs, institutionalization and even physical torture or a lobotomy.

Thankfully, most people – with the notable exception of the some of the folks who will testify for a voter referendum on marriage equality tonight at the Senate Judiciary Committee – know how wrong we were about the LGBTQ community.

My warning to anyone who would support such a poor tool for granting equal rights is that in couple of years you might find your public statements in a documentary about how prejudiced we were about human sexuality just a few short years ago…

Watch Stonewall Uprising on PBS. See more from American Experience.

My Marriage Equality Testimony For Tonight


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Dear Chairman McCaffrey and Members of the Committee,

I am proud today to offer testimony in support of Senate Bill 38, the marriage equality bill. I urge you to back this historic legislation and affirm Rhode Island’s commitment to equal rights.

I am here with my mom, who is one of the thousands of Rhode Islanders who is discriminated against by our current marriage law.  I ask you how you would feel if someone told you that your mother couldn’t marry the person she loved? Would you be indignant?

So yes, I am here in great part for selfish motivations. I love my mom, and I want to protect her from harm. I am also here to stand in solidarity with my many gay and lesbian friends, most of whom couldn’t be here to speak for themselves. I would be a lesser person if it weren’t for their friendship.

If Rhode Island law is determined by my personal whims, the invocations of my mom and friends as reasons to support this bill will sway you in that direction. Alas, I realize I am only one citizen, even if the polls show me in the majority.

Let me add then that my gay and lesbian friends generally have healthier relationships than my heterosexual friends. I am also confident that their love is equal in strength and commitment to the love of my straight friends. Indeed, some of them have already gotten married in other states. I see the joy of those few, and I cannot for the life of me see any rationale for continuing to deny the right to marry to so many Rhode Islanders.

If Rhode Island law is determined by rationality, the fact that same sex relationships are exactly the same as heterosexual relationships in the spirit of love will convince you to support this bill. Sadly, rationality is not the determining factor in the issue of equal marriage.

Marriage is an enshrinement of love which is elementally spiritual, and thus from the very beginning it has been entangled with religion. For better or for worse, rationality has been overshadowed by faith in this policy debate. Consequently, Rhode Island’s marriage law institutionalizes the prejudice, intolerance, and discrimination of antiquated religious beliefs.

If only there was some prohibition against mixing church and state, there would be a way around this intractable mess. With that in mind, I’ll invoke an ancestor a bit farther removed than my mother, namely Roger Williams. Williams was a devout man, a Baptist minister in fact. Yet, it was he who brought the notion of separation of church and state that the freedom of religion demands to America. It was he who charged us in the Rhode Island Constitution:

“to hold forth a lively experiment that a flourishing civil state may stand and be best maintained with full liberty inreligious concernments; we, therefore, declare that no person shall be compelled to frequent or to support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatever, except in fulfillment of such person’s voluntary contract; nor enforced, restrained, molested, or burdened in body or goods; nor disqualified from holding any office; nor otherwise suffer on account of such person’s religious belief; and that every person shall be free to worship God according to the dictates of such person’s conscience, and to profess and by argument to maintain such person’s opinion in matters of religion; and that the same shall in no wise diminish, enlarge, or affect the civil capacity of any person.”

I can say with confidence that if he was alive today, Roger Williams would be ashamed of how current law compels Rhode Islanders to support the ministries of some faiths in such a way that it affects the civil capacities of thousands of other citizens.

As an active member of two faith communities that have endorsed same sex marriage, the Quakers and the Unitarian-Universalists, I know first hand that current law violates the practice of my beliefs while it validates the religious practice of others. Therefore, it is unconstitutional, and it should be amended appropriately.

Senate Bill 38 does this. It brings our law back into agreement with our Constitution. Moreover, it recognizes the common sense reality that all love is equal and should be allowed equal expression. Most importantly of course, my mom and my friends will finally have the respect they deserve. The more we abolish the institutions that create lesser classes of people, the greater we will all become.

Please pass this bill, and thank you for your consideration.

Sincerely,

Abel Collins

Letter To Paiva Weed: Pass Marriage Equality Now


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Katrina Chaves, left, and her partner Caylene Pillsbury.

It must be sad and lonely being Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed these days.

Her anti-equality allies RI-NOM is being outed as liars all over the media, and Governor Chafee’s op/ed in Sunday’s Providence Journal makes clear that she is not only standing in the way of social justice, but also economic growth.

It’s worth noting that no community in the Ocean State would benefit more from same sex nuptials than Newport, and the local chamber of commerce has called on Paiva Weed to support marriage equality.

But the hardest part of being on the wrong side of history must be the real life stories of being oppressed. Here’s a copy of a letter that Katrina Chaves, a Massachusetts-based LGBTQ activist and former /future Rhode Island College student, wrote to her recently:

Dear Senator Paiva Weed,

My name is Katrina Chaves, and I am writing this letter to ask you to come out in favor of same-sex marriage, and consider the legacy you are leaving behind.  I admittedly know very little about you, and would not have been inclined to write, had I not learned of the ways in which you could potentially affect my future, and the future of my community. I urge you to publicly pledge your support, as I urge all Americans, for there is much at stake.

As a Massachusetts resident who hopes to return to the state where I graduated college, I must say that Rhode Island has given me more than I can describe in a few paragraphs. Hopefully, I have returned the favor, spending nearly a decade protesting, laughing, loving, living, and working in Providence. I plan on continuing to give back to the communities that shaped my identity and formed some of my most cherished memories. However, this will not be entirely possible, if progress is not made.

If it sounds like I am writing about the “gay marriage” issue here, let me clarify: I am not. I have never identified as gay, and will not suddenly become gay by marrying my female partner. Sexuality is far more fluid and complex than that, and (regardless of how it is portrayed) love is not black and white. It is often indifferent to gender. Intimacy can be cultivated between two people of any race, sex, class, and cultural background. I am writing about same-sex marriage because it is a personal and political issue – a civil rights issue- that impacts the quality of my life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness, as well as that of future generations.

When I marry my partner, an adventurous, witty, and hardworking Marine Corps veteran, it will not matter that she is female. As we walk down the aisle, the only thing that will matter is the love and unconditional support that we bring to each other’s lives.

As an activist, I can easily list the many ways in which society will be improved by allowing LGBTI folks like us to marry. Being the only state in New England without same-sex marriage makes RI businesses less competitive; one cannot underestimate the potential boost to our economy as a result of weddings and engagements.

Moreover, this state has a history of religious freedom and tolerance that will not be affected by legalization, which 56% of Rhode Island voters are in favor of, anyway.

Still, all logic and reason aside, it is not my goal to persuade you with a rational explanation of how the “pros” outweigh the “cons” here. Rather, I invite you to listen to your conscience, if you have one, and examine your own humanity. What are the values you stand for? How do you want to be remembered? Do you believe in doing the right thing, simply for the sake of doing the right thing? Do you believe that equality is “the right thing?”

Perhaps you have heard about former state Rep. Charles Knowles, a man who, upon much reflection, admitted he was wrong to oppose same-sex marriage. He recently testified, “I viewed my opposition basically on moral grounds, as a Christian, but I’ve also said to myself that the First Amendment separates church and state. I believe it goes both ways.

The government shouldn’t be putting its nose into my religious beliefs or lack thereof, and I think people’s religion should stay out of this building. When I was a lawmaker, I should have looked at the law and the Constitution before I made up my mind based on what was in my heart.”

As much as I appreciate his transformation and newfound support, I find his path to this conclusion a bit disheartening. I think it is our job to decide what we feel is humane, fair, and just, in a broader sense. We must let our moral compass guide us in the right direction, in any career, and follow that code of ethics even when there are repercussions. Yes, even if it makes you unpopular in political and personal spaces. Charles Knowles was not wrong because he made up his mind “based on what was in his heart.” He was wrong because his heart apparently told him that other human beings are less deserving of equality and justice.

So, I now ask you, Senator, to be honest with yourself, and with your constituents.

What does your heart say?

Sincerely,

Katrina Chaves

Poll: 3 Of Every 5 RIers Support Marriage Equality


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Three out of every five Rhode Islanders want the state Senate to follow the House’s lead and allow same sex couples the same marriage rights that other loving couples enjoy, according to a new Brown poll.

“This poll affirms what we are hearing on the phones and at people’s doors – a growing majority of Rhode Islanders strongly support marriage equality,” said Ray Sullivan, Rhode Islanders United for Marriage campaign director. “We are going to keep organizing and advocating for all Rhode Island families, and continue to capture this energy and enthusiasm across the state.”

Only 26 percent of respondents want the inequity to continue, and many in that group cited religious concerns as their reason. Senators concerned about winning reelection into the foreseeable future will want to make note of the fact that more than 80 percent of respondents under 40 support marriage equality.

Nearly all Rhode Island political leaders support same sex marriage with the notable exception of Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed. She has been pressed by everyone from the progressive community to the Providence Journal editorial board to pass marriage equality. A recent ProJo editorial accused her of holding the bill hostage for political purposes instead of passing it so the legislature can focus on the economy.

Why Won’t MassResistance Defend Itself Publicly


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I wrote a pair of articles (Reason, Bigotry on Display at Marriage Hearing and Tobin Aligns With Hate Group to Oppose Equality) that explored the sordid background of the Catholic Church’s new ally in their quixotic quest to deny consenting adults their right to marry who they choose. I called particular attention to Brian Camenker of the group MassResistance, a certified Southern Poverty Law Center anti-homosexual hate group. The SPLC documented a series of bigoted, hateful comments by Camenker, which Camenker, apparently denies.

I say apparently because in response to my posts Camenker wrote vigorous denials, but in the form of an email to members of his group, not on any public forum. Those who are not already members of Massresistance would not have had access to Camenker’s comments on my articles. In fact, the only way I heard about his response at all is through Gina Miller of RenewAmerica, a conservative website that functions on the intellectual level of Glenn Beck. This raises the question: why is Camenker afraid to publicly air his denials and content only to run damage control among the faithful? Could it be that his denials will not withstand public scrutiny?

Gina Miller is on Camenker’s mailing list, and in her article entitled Pray for MassResistance and marriage in Rhode Island she quotes liberally from his response to my posts. I’ll let interested readers follow the link to his defense, such as it is, and instead concentrate on one important paragraph near the end:

MassResistance has been a pro-family group serving people with traditional values in Massachusetts and other states for over 18 years. We are proud of our record of supporting marriage and family, and will stand by everything we’ve ever said or written.

Right Wing Watch documented Camenker’s appearance yesterday on the Sally Rios radio show, a propaganda arm of the American Family Association,  where the MassResistance leader and spokesman claimed that there is no proof that transgender and homosexual kids suffer bullying and harassment. He also doubted whether transgender and homosexual kids exist at all, apparently believing that LGBTQ teens are either lying or delusional about their sexual orientation.

Camenker, then, is the kind of person and MassResistance is the kind of group that Bishop Thomas Tobin, NOM-RI, the Knights of Columbus and countless other church leaders have aligned themselves with: people who actively work against the safety of our schoolchildren, denying reality in the process.

Decent people would be ashamed of such an association.

Business Community Gets Behind Marriage Equality


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From big city chief executives to small town chambers of commerce, the Rhode Island business community supports marriage equality, too.

“This is about competitiveness and creating an economic climate that allows Rhode Island to attract the best and brightest talent and employers,” said Alan Hassenfeld, former CEO of Pawtucket-based Hasbro, in a statement released today. “To be competitive, a state must create an equitable, fair and respectful environment for all of its citizens. From a business point of view, passing marriage equality just makes good sense.”

Rhode Islanders United for Marriage Equality announced today that “In recognition of the significant and positive impact marriage equality will have on the Ocean State’s economy, leaders from across the state’s business community today announced the launch of Rhode Island Business Leaders for Marriage Equality.

The most politically significant member might well be the Newport County Chamber of Commerce’s support. This means Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed will have to choose between her religion and her constituent’s economic interests when she weighs whether or not to support same sex marriage.

“The Newport County Chamber of Commerce said it best: Without marriage equality, Rhode Island puts itself at a significant economic disadvantage by not recognizing and respecting all loving, committed couples in the Ocean State,” Sally Lapides, president of Residential Properties Ltd, said in a statement. “Ours is the only New England state without marriage equality, and Rhode Island firms are losing business. That’s why we need the General Assembly to pass this important legislation.”

Another influential member of the business group for marriage equality is Providence Journal publisher Howard Sutton.

You can see the entire list here and pledge your support.

Marriage Equality Group Celebrates Valentine’s Day


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Rhode Islanders United for Marriage didn’t get to celebrate Valentine’s Day with a same sex wedding, but the broad-based grassroots group did open a new operations center so it can continue to effectively advocate for it. In addition to freelancing for the New York Times and RI Future, I’m also a wedding photographer and I’d really like to shoot the first same sex marriage in the Ocean State.

Rhetoric: RI Can’t Do That Because Of Bad Economy


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The State House in late November. (Photo by Bob Plain)

One of the arguments being used by anti-marriage equality forces is the argument that we need to fix the economy first before we can focus on marriage. It’s a classic false dichotomy, and one marriage equality advocates have responded to by pointing out the economic benefits of allowing same-sex couples to marry. But this type of rhetoric is always bad.

Yes, the House and Senate Judiciary Committees do have other matters to consider. However, very few of those matters pertain to the economy and instead are all about law and justice. So marriage equality falls right under what they should be looking at.

The argument is basically positing that marriage equality legislation is a distraction from examining our economy. But if that was the case, where were the people who were so concerned about the economy that no other bills can be passed when Voter ID was enacted? Where were they when the General Assembly issued numerous commemorative license plates? Why didn’t they oppose Frank’s Law? Why didn’t they protest every other non-economic bill that made it through the General Assembly since Fall 2008?

The truth is that though the General Assembly only has finite time to pass and debate legislation, they’re not people who can’t pass more than one piece of legislation at a time. Contrary to our worst pessimists’ opinions, General Assembly members can, in fact, chew gum and walk at the same time. Marriage equality will take exactly as long to pass as its opponents want it to. If they feel it’s necessary to make it a distraction from economic issues, they’re the ones who will be responsible for doing so. The House speedily passed their bill and then moved on to other matters, like the economy.

Government doesn’t grind to a halt merely because the economy is bad. Economies are fickle things, complex problems that require study and thought. People spend whole lives trying to figure out how to solve economic problems and then die, and they’re still wrong! Comparatively, marriage equality is a no-brainer. It’s an easy question to answer. Do you believe that two people, regardless of their genders, should be able to have their love recognized by this state? That’s it. It takes less than a second to answer. And then you vote.

NOM’s So-Called ‘Push Poll’ Isn’t Even A Poll At All


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Of course NOM’s so-called push poll on same sex marriage is not to be trusted. But it’s not because the anti-equality advocacy group asked manipulative questions, as ThinkProgress, The Phoenix and the Providence Journal all reported yesterday. It’s because the robo-call didn’t accept answers it didn’t like, as John McDaid reported two weeks ago.

“Then came the poll: ‘Do you believe marriage should be between a man and a woman?’ The system was unable to process the answer that this reporter provided, and the call terminated, with the usual disclaimer that this was not paid for by any candidate, etc.,” McDaid wrote for RIFuture on January 31.

As such, it’s actually a compliment – not an insult – to call what NOM did a push poll because it wasn’t even a poll at all. It was a robo-call seeking like-minded responses to present a false picture of Rhode Island to the public and the press.

It’s bad enough to advocate for discrimination, but at least do it on its merits without also cheating. Opinion, spin, bias, even outright misrepresentation are all tactics we all readily accept in political debate. But this is something entirely more nefarious – this is fraud.  Citizens, journalists, pundits and politicians should all condemn NOM for the deception. But pollsters should be most furious because it devalues the otherwise valuable social metric that polls provide.

UPDATE: It turns out McDaid isn’t the only one whose answers were rejected by NOM’s call. I got this tweet shortly after posting this story:

And McDaid added this:

In McDaid’s initial post, he said he had been contacted by a NOM robo-call posing as a phone poll in early January as well. During that call, on January 11, he was able to register his support for same sex marriage. It’s possible the robo-call was programmed to accept a predetermined number of responses that would bolster NOM’s talking points.

McDaid caught the NOM call in a different kind of deception that time. The call claimed to come from a Rhode Island number, but his caller id claimed otherwise. He even took a picture of the evidence:

McDaid’s caller id shows that the NOM call did not come from the phone number that it claimed to. (Photo by John McDaid)

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