MassResistance Asks NOM To Back Hate Speech


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Senator Metts and Brian Camenker

When asked directly by Joe Siegel back in 2009 if NOM-RI is a hate group, Christopher Plante, who runs the local affiliate of the anti marriage equality group NOM (National Organization for Marriage) said, “I don’t believe that at all. Do I think that there are extreme people on both sides of the movement that can say hateful things? Absolutely. NOM is here to defend marriage, to protect it, and to encourage it.”

In recent months, as marriage equality in Rhode Island edges ever closer to passage and NOM becomes more desperate, Plante has become less picky about being seen as a hate group. As I have documented time and again, Plante has teamed up with Brian Camenker of MassResistance, an actual, certified Southern Poverty Law Center hate group. The Faith Alliance, which includes both NOM-RI and MassResistance as key members, is a coalition of several anti-marriage equality groups including Latino evangelical church leaders, the Knights of Columbus and the Catholic Diocese of Rhode Island.

To give them the benefit of a doubt, it is quite possible that the leaders of the various groups were unaware of the extreme nature of Camenker and MassResistance. Christopher Plante and NOM-RI however, can no longer claim ignorance as their defense.

Zack Ford, writing for ThinkProgress, reports, “In a recent Tea Party Unity conference call, Brian Camenker of the anti-gay hate group MassResistance challenged NOM President Brian Brown about this selective language use, asking why NOM doesn’t just admit that homosexuality is a ‘perversion.'”

On the call, Camenker was upset that NOM’s strategy in court focuses on the value of traditional marriage and does not include attacks on LGBTQ relationships as being illegitimate and “perverse.” Camenker is essentially calling on NOM to embrace anti-LGBTQ hate speech as a tactic.

NOM President Brian Brown, a staunch Catholic, is not adverse to the idea on principle, but his strategy is all about the courts, and as he puts it, “…it’s not likely that a stronger argument about homosexuality is really going to shift [Supreme Court Justice] Kennedy.”

Still, Brown does not advise Camenker to tone down his hateful rhetoric. Instead, Brown encourages Camenker’s actions, saying, “…different groups need to do different things, not all groups have to do the same thing. So folks that are taking a harder line in focusing more on homosexuality, there need to be different groups doing different things.”

As Ford points out, “If NOM is encouraging other groups to be harsher opponents of homosexuality just so it can save face, it’s no less responsible for it in the end.”

I would add that locally, here in Rhode Island, all the members of the Faith Alliance can be held equally responsible for the anti-LGBTQ lies being spread at the Judiciary Committee meetings held at the General Assembly recently.  More than one witness based their testimony on Camenker’s pamphlet What same-sex “marriage” has done to Massachusetts a hateful collection of lies and partial truths written by Camenker and distributed at the large anti-LGBTQ rallies held in the State House rotunda and distributed to every member of the General Assembly by MassResistance.

The anti-LGBTQ coalition here in Rhode Island hides behind their “traditional values” rhetoric even as it encourages and wallows in Camenker and Plante’s hateful attacks on same-sex families and LGBTQ individuals. Such behavior is grossly inappropriate and calls into question the true motives of everyone involved with the Faith Alliance. Indeed, keeping company with bigots may lead other leaders of anti-LGBTQ groups to start telling lies themselves.

Marriage Not Only Issue For LGBTQ Community


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With the words “marriage equality” on the minds and tongues of thousands of passionate progressives, in Little Rhodey and the rest of the nation, we must remind ourselves that LGBT folks face a variety of other important issues.

Sadly, studies have shown that LGBT people are 2 to 4 times as likely to commit suicide, which speaks to the severe lack of protection, support, and resources available to my community.  Bisexual and transgender individuals have been largely ignored, in both straight and gay circles, (which became increasingly obvious during the repeal of DADT), and statistics measuring their mental/physical well-being reflect this.  Moreover, while federal laws protect workers from being discriminated against because of their race, religion, sex, age, national origin, and disability, they can still be fired for their sexual orientation or gender identity.

Despite the optimistic “It Gets Better” mantra/movement, it gets worse:  LGBT people can be evicted because of their sexual orientation or gender identity in 29 states.  Seven states still ban adoption by same-sex couples.  Nearly half of all homeless youth identify as LGBT, and the most prevalent reason for their homelessness is family rejection.

In an abusive same-sex relationship?  Well, good luck!  According to a study by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, 45% of LGBT victims were turned away when they sought assistance from a domestic violence shelter. Over half of those who filed for protection orders were denied them.  This is rather disturbing, given the results of a 2010 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention survey:  61% of bisexual women and 44% of lesbian women reported intimate partner violence.

With all of our focus on same-sex marriage, it is essential to avoid putting these conversations on the back burner.  Speaking as a bisexual woman in a long-term relationship with another bisexual woman,  I know from experience how challenging it is to remain healthy, strong, confident, and safe, in the face of homophobic attitudes, hostile work environments, and much worse.  If we think that our work is done because marriage equality has been won, we are terribly mistaken.

And on that note, my friends and allies, as the season of Pride approaches, check out some wonderful events happening in the Ocean State this month:

April 3 PFLAG of Greater Providence meeting, 6:45-8:45 p.m. The Met School, 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571.

April 5 Luna’s Ladies Night, 9 p.m. Roots Cultural Center, 276 Westminster St., Providence.
Live music, DJ, special events. 21+ $6 cover. See www.lunaspvd.com.

April 7 RI Pride Triple Crown Pageant, 7-10 p.m. Providence Biltmore Hotel, 11 Dorrance St.  Doors open at 6 p.m. For more information & tickets see www.prideri.com, or
e-mail Info@prideri.com.

April 14 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7p.m. Social and networking for gay and bisexual men 40+.
Social, dinner and meeting. www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010.

April 16 Borderlands 7-9 p.m. A peer-led support group open to transgender, transsexual, gender-variant, and intersex people and to those who are questioning. Meeting location is withheld for participant privacy. See info@tginetwork.org for more info.

April 25 RI GLADHour: Happy Hour for Fans of LGBT Equal Justice 6-8:30 p.m. Ri Ra Irish Pub. Complimentary hors d’oeuvres • Hear from Janson Wu, GLAD Staff Attorney, about GLAD’s ground-breaking work for marriage equality in Rhode Island

Tobin Urges State To Wait For Marriage Equality


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Marriage Equality in Rhode Island is going to happen.

The forces fighting against the rising tide of love and equality are starting to realize this. Yesterday election forecasting wunderkind Nate Silver had a piece in the New York Times that crunched the numbers and came to a conclusion that should give pause to opponents: marriage equality is almost certain to be the law of the land in the United States by 2020.

Knowing that this battle cannot be won leaves opponents of marriage equality with nothing but tactics that will delay the inevitable. Hence today’s press release from Bishop Thomas Tobin of the Providence Diocese. Tobin knows that society is moving past his medieval views on the subject one way or the other. Nate Silver demonstrates that merely the turnover in population is enough to make the acceptance of gay marriage inevitable as the older generation is replaced with its younger, more tolerant descendants. No one needs to change their minds on the issue for marriage equality to eventually dominate public opinion.

Tobin said:

In light of the historic deliberations of the U.S. Supreme Court on same-sex marriage, it would be appropriate for the General Assembly of Rhode Island to defer any action on this critical issue for the time being. Any legislative action that is taken now could very well be rendered completely null and void by the decision of the Supreme Court expected this June. It is likely that the Supreme Court will decide this matter for us, one way or another. Let’s wait to see what the highest court of the land says about this issue which is so very important to many Rhode Islanders.

Asking the General Assembly to put the issue off until the Supreme Court decides the case this summer essentially scuttles the bill. If the Supreme Court were to issue a wide ruling making marriage equality the law nationwide, perhaps little would be lost. But the Court might decide to narrowly rule on Prop 8, limiting the decision to California, which effectively delays marriage equality in Rhode Island for another year.

That’s right, another year of State House rallies, all night House and Senate Judiciary Committee meetings rehashing the same arguments from both sides of the issue, and more division and hostility in our state.

Here is the response from Rev. Gene Dyszlewski, chair of the Religious Coalition for Marriage Equality:

With all due respect to His Excellency, neither case before the Supreme Court has any bearing on the decision of the General Assembly to make marriage available to all loving, committed couples in Rhode Island,” said Rev. Dyszlewski. “This is another in a long string of delay tactics — seeking to stall the strong momentum of marriage equality legislation — by those who oppose allowing all families to access the dignity and respect of marriage. The fact is, no decision issued by the Court will render ‘null and void’ any state legislature’s ability to grant the freedom to marry to all its citizens.

“We respect the Senate process, and are appreciative the Judiciary Committee is continuing to consider the testimony from last week’s unprecedented 12-hour long hearing. We are still engaging in thoughtful and productive conversations with all members of the Senate.
“This is a holy week for many Rhode Islanders, as we gather around Seder tables and paschal candles. I, for one, will pray for our elected leaders in the General Assembly, that they may hear God’s call to love one another, as He loves us.”

Tobin made some news a couple of weeks ago when he came out in favor of Senator Ciccone’s bill that would put the issue on the ballot. Once again, Tobin seeks only to delay the inevitable. The bill could not be placed on the ballot until the next election, and even if the bill were to pass, Tobin promises to “vigorously oppose efforts to redefine the institution of marriage in Rhode Island.”

Let’s face it, Tobin won’t change his mind on this issue by popular vote. The vigorous opposition may come in the form of judicial challenges that might delay the implementation of marriage quality for many more years, or with the endless introduction of bills that might seek to impose limits on same-sex marriage.

An honest player in public debate presents his or her case earnestly and forcibly, depending on the process to arrive at the best possible outcome. Gaming the system with last minute bills to place the issue on the ballot or suggesting the issue be tabled pending a Supreme Court decision is simply political theater calculated to stymie and delay the process to the detriment of everyone.

This issue demands a clean up or down vote from the Senate.

A Glimpse Into The Future For Marriage Equality


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Dateline: June, 2023.

Governor Frank Ferri is headlining a small event at the State House celebrating the 10th anniversary of the SCOTUS decision striking down DOMA and California’s bad on gay marriage. Gov. Ferri gives a brief statement commemorating the occassion, and the handful of activists who fought so hard for equality here a decade ago offer him some subdued applause, and then everyone moves on to more pressing matters of the day.

A cub reporter for Cumulus RI (which ceased being known as WPRO shortly after Ron St. Pierre was let go) asks a veteran Providence Journal reporter what the governor is going on about. “Gay marriage,” Kathy Gregg growls at the newbie.

What about it, thought the recent graduate of the University in Rhode Island? The 22-year-old vaguely remembers when the 501c4 group the Coalition of Payday Loan Sharks for Bibilical Dogma tried to make it an issue when Ferri first ran for governor … but John DePetro was the only member of the media to even mention it, and his show had long ago been pushed back to the 1 to 4 am slot.

The vendor who sells pizza at the State House notices the bewilderment in the Smith Hill rookie, and decides to confer some wisdom on the cub reporter.

“Hey kid,” he beckons. “I know no one cares anymore if people of the same gender fall in love and want to marry each other, but time was this was a big deal in this building. Unfortunately, we didn’t realize it wasn’t a big deal to anyone outside of this building other than a couple crazies who kept confusing their Bible with our Constitution.”

“What do you mean ‘we,'” inquires the cub reporter.

“I used to be a legislator here,” the pizza man proudly exclaims. “When my constituents voted me out of office, the Christian Caucus helped me get the exclusive contract to sell slices here on Smith Hill.”

“There used to be a Christian caucus!?!,” said the cub reporter, completely surprised that such a coalition could ever exist in modern American government. The reporter, born in 2001, had heard such rumors that politicians used to read from the Bible and that women couldn’t vote and even there were separate bathroom facilities for people whose ancestors were from different continents, but she had figured that had all happened during the dark ages of America.

“Sure,” said the pizza man. “And we were real powerful, too. We all got quickly voted out of office in 2014, but Monsignor Camenker made sure we all got good jobs in government.”

He gestures towards the Catholic Church’s well-known State House lobbyist/nun/lawyer.

“Take, for example, Sister Teresa,” the pizza man tells the cub reporter. “She never got to be a judge like she always wanted, and she didn’t get to take any credit for Newport’s booming wedding economy, but she’ll always have a place inside the State House sticking up for the church.”

Metts Opposes Marriage Equality On ‘Biblical Principles’

Senator Harold Metts, Bible in Hand

Judge Ronald R Lagueux, in his ruling in Ahlquist v. City of Cranston that removed the prayer banner from the walls of the auditorium at Cranston High School West, described the Cranston School Committee’s open meetings to discuss the prayer banner as at times having the tenor of “a religious revival.”

This is something those who have followed the testimony before the House and Senate Judiciary Committees on the subject of Marriage Equality can understand as the debate seems to center not on issues of secular laws in a secular government, but on whether our laws should be based upon certain individual’s narrow understanding of Biblical law.

Senator Frank Lombardi, who served on the Cranston School Board during the Prayer Banner kerfuffle and was one of the prayer banner’s most vocal defenders, drew an active comparison to the issue of Marriage Equality and the issue of the Prayer Banner, as did several witnesses and Senator Harold Metts. Since that time in Cranston, no sense of doubt about the rightness of mixing church and state has entered Lombardi’s mind, despite Judge Lagueux’s reasoned and eloquent decision. Responding to the testimonies of Chris and Kara Young, Ronald L’Heureux and Michael Krzywonos at Thursday night’s hearing Lombardi said, “We can’t defrock ourselves of our religious beliefs.”

Ron L’Heureux, a minister with New Life Worship Center, has, according to Senator Metts, supplied him with fascinating historical material about the founding fathers and religious liberty. The problem is that L’Heureux is a follower of pseudo-historian David Barton, who has fabricated a false history of the United States recasting the founders as Christian ideologues intent on establishing some sort of Christian theocracy that is at best “tolerant” of dissenting religious opinions. L’Heureux closed his testimony by addressing Senator Lombardi directly, assuring him that L’Heureux has filed a brief in Ahlquist v Cranston to have Judge Lagueux’s decision overturned. That’s right, L’Heureux is still quixotically fighting the Cranston Prayer Banner issue.

Senator Metts is no fool. He waited until Governor Lincoln Chafee delivered his testimony, then, with the Governor fixed in his seat as a captive audience and the news cameras rolling in time for the six o’clock news, Metts went into his first long speech of the night. Right away, Metts brought up his religion, saying, “I’m a sinner saved by grace and I come before you with great humility.”

Those who value the separation of church and state and a secular society found themselves wondering what this could possibly have to do with the issue before the committee. The comments by Metts were not simply out of place, they were inappropriate.

Metts went on to say that he is undaunted by the calls and emails he has received over the years that refer to him as a religious bigot. He maintained that in America, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion and to religious liberty. Not satisfied with talking up his religion, Metts challenged the very idea that Marriage Equality is a civil rights issue.

“Many in my community take exception to the gay rights activists that hitch their wagon to the civil rights movement as it pertains to African Americans. What I tell people is that I can change my sexual preference tonight if I want to but I can’t change my color. What people do in the privacy of their bedrooms can never be compared to what African Americans went through in slavery.”

As Katrina Chaves pointed out yesterday, in covering the Supreme Court hearing on California’s Prop 8, African American Pastor Rev. Bill Owens made the same sort of comparison at an anti gay marriage rally. Chaves concluded that, “engaging in ‘Oppression Olympics’ serves absolutely no one.”

Metts talked about the fall of Rome and Greece being due to “moral decay.” He mourned the loss of Ten Commandment displays and mandatory prayers in public schools. Metts also said that those who claim the Bible is outdated and no longer applies are committing, in his opinion, blasphemy.

“My main opposition to this bill,” said Metts, “is based on Biblical principles.”

When not striking a strident religious tone, Metts sometimes came off as strangely paranoid and loopy. “The nations that follow God’s word will be blessed and those who rejected it were cursed. Need I remind you of the Babylonian captivity in ancient Israel? I’ll probably be gone by then but I certainly don’t want my grandchildren to be taken into captivity in China or elsewhere.”

Not for the last time did Metts talked about the redeeming power of Jesus. At several points during the long night of testimony Metts would take the time to make long, digressive rambles about his religious convictions, at times holding up and reading directly from his Bible, which he assured us all he reads every morning and every night, every day of the year.

“Even if we live to be a hundred years old, we’re only on this side of eternity for a short time,” said Metts during one of his long digressions, “It’s the other side of eternity we should be concerned with.” Later in the same speech, Metts compared the battle over Marriage Equality to “a cosmic battle between God and Satan, and whether we like it or not, we’re part of it.”

An elected state Senator regaling the crowd with frankly childish mythologies about a cosmic battle between God and Satan for human souls in the context of a hearing about marriage equality should be worrisome enough for anyone concerned about liberty of conscience and the separation of church and state, but the most alarming moment came later when Senator Metts made the following comment to Senator Juan Pichardo, a supporter of Marriage Equality:

“Senator Pichardo, we’re good buddies, and [marriage equality] is probably the only issue we disagree on. The problems you cited in society, the problem is that the further we move away from this [Metts held up his Bible] the more problems you’re going to see. When you align with scripture, that’s when you see things get a little bit better.”

Metts might disagree with Pichardo on the issue of equality, but in calling for a theocratic form of government based on the Bible instead of our current system of secular democracy Metts is demonstrating a disagreement with the entire system of American government and the oath he took to uphold the Constitution when he was sworn into office.

What is the difference, aside from the title of the book involved, between Metts’ view of a government based on his Bible and a fundamentalist Muslim advocating for Sharia law? One answer is that Metts can get elected as a Christian fundamentalist, but no Muslim with comparable views would stand a chance. Recall that Metts considers denigrating the Bible to be blasphemy. The Biblical punishment for blasphemy is death.

Can Metts really want our society to align with Biblical scripture? Such an idea is barbaric.

Later, after listening to a story from Jen Saarinen, a concerned high school teacher worried that feelings of inferiority might take hold in LGBTQ students concerned about their second class status as citizens in a state without Marriage Equality, and about the effects of bullying on LGBTQ teens, Metts claimed that as an educator with 31 years of experience, he felt the rules of the school protected everyone, and though he had to protect many students, they “really never had that problem back then.” That problem being LGBTQ kids being bullied.

This of course, is a classic tactic in the fight against rules in public schools that add sexual preference and gender identification to race, religion, disability and other identifiers of diversity that need to be protected against bigotry and bullying. Brian Camenker of MassResistance, a friend and ally of Metts, constantly rails against new codes that might protect LGBTQ students.

Metts’ solution to the problem of bullying is as predictable as it is fatuous. “I wonder if there’s a correlation to when they took the Ten Commandments out of public buildings. I wonder if there’s a correlation when they took prayer out of the schools. I wonder if there’s a correlation as we try to remove God from his creation that we had the Columbine and the other tragedies. So these are some of the things that I see.” Metts added that he has seen kids in schools “chastised for their religious beliefs, and that shouldn’t happen either.” Metts provided no examples of the ongoing bullying that Christian kids receive in schools, or any evidence that Christian kids are on the receiving end of more bullying than LGBTQ kids.

In my own testimony before the committee I tried to make the point that religious concerns are incidental to the question at hand. Marriage equality is a secular issue, and all questions as to whether it violates someone’s religious beliefs are beside the point. I said that the ideas that “homosexuality is an abomination” or that “marriage equality is God’s will” are unimportant. The two positions not only talk at cross-purposes and to no avail, but to a Humanist/atheist like myself the two positions are equally nonsensical.

Metts replied to my testimony by completely missing my point. Metts proceeded to read the Bible to me, specifically the Gospel of Matthew 14:4-5. I wonder if Metts would have thought it appropriate to read from his holy book if someone declared their Jewish or other non-Christian beliefs? In point of fact, Metts avoided going after any other non-Christians directly. Metts reserved his highhanded Christian authoritarianism for the first person who identified as an atheist. This is in itself a form of Christian privilege and bullying, the kind that Metts denies happens in public schools.

Metts is an active supporter of the Faith Alliance, a group I have identified time and again as being at least in part an anti-LGBTQ hate group due to its inclusion of Brian Camenker’s MassResistance. Metts named checked the Faith Alliance as he complemented Pastor David Rodriguez, one of the architects of the group. I’m sure Metts sees the Faith Alliance as operating without hate, and would certainly repudiate the views of Brian Camenker if given the chance. On the other hand, here’s a photo of Metts and Camenker taken during the ant-Marriage Equality Rally back in January. They seem like good friends.

Senator Metts and Brian Camenker

Though it did not seem like it at the time, perhaps I affected Metts with my testimony after all, as an hour after I left the building he brought me up in a rambling, nearly incoherent eight minute long religious sermon. Metts’ speech was a blatant and embarrassing display of Senatorial privilege and religious entitlement. Referring to the written testimony I handed in, Metts said:

“The Humanist/atheist said that maybe there’s 37% of the population classify themselves as nonbelievers. Well I’m not surprised by that because what happened was that they took the Ten Commandments out of the school they took the prayers out of the school and if you’re a Christian kid in school today, you’re chastised… If anybody is chastised, it’s Christians!

Playing off the testimony of another speaker, Metts continued, “You know, the whole notion of looking to government to justify sin, that resonated because we’re all sinners. We know that.”

Then, in case anyone was wondering how Deacon Metts became so expert in the minutia of God’s will and the truth of his particular form of Christianity, Metts kindly explained:

“As far as knowing God’s word, how I know God’s word is, I study it. Bible study. I’ve got a guide in the back of my Bible. I start January 1st, the Old Testament in the morning and the New Testament at night and at the end of the year I’ve read the whole Bible. I’ve been doing it for years.”

Just to be clear, this lesson on religion was paid for by Rhode Island taxpayers, on Rhode Island taxpayers’ time.

Metts believes that when he needs to know something, “God will reveal it to me in scripture.”

Metts then went on to make his second impassioned case for Jesus Christ. “When we accept Christ we are all indwelled by the Holy Spirit and if we tap into that power, that’s how we interpret scripture…. The whole goal of reading scripture is to become Christ-like… God loves the sinner but he hates the sinner, and the only way we can get that sin off of us is to accept Jesus.”

Metts ended his tirade with more than a tinge of paranoia. “Up in Canada, with the hate speech, if I read scripture against homosexuals, I could end up in jail. So now everything came out the closet, and they’re trying to put the Christians in the closet. I’m not going in the closet for no one.”

Twice during the long night of testimony Metts attempted to make a comment in response to a witness, and then shut down the witnesses’ ability to respond. The first time came when he was speaking to Jen Saarinen, the High School teacher concerned with LGBTQ bullying, and the second time was to John Reilly, an Evangelical who apologized for the behavior of some of the Christians opposed to Marriage Equality. The video shows Metts angrily and unsuccessfully trying to get Committee Chair Michael McCaffrey to stop Reilly from talking back to him. These assertions of Senatorial privilege, even though in both cases Metts was unable to silence the witnesses, is unfortunate in a country and state that values freedom of expression.

John Reilly was far from the only person to counter the views of Metts in his testimony. Rabbi Barry Dolinger, the youngest Rabbi in the Rhode Island, representing an Orthodox Judaism that firmly rejects homosexual marriage, nonetheless believes that marriage equality is a secular issue. Just as he does not want laws passed that would restrict his ability to practice his faith the way he sees fit, so does he also understand the necessity of allowing people of other faiths (and no faith) to practice (or not practice) as they see fit.

Rabbi Dolinger strongly supports marriage equality, taking a brave stance for true religious liberty and liberty of conscience, one that Senator Metts and other conservative Christian leaders (including Bishop Thomas Tobin of the Providence Catholic Diocese) should take note of.

Dolinger pointed out that his people have been the historical victims of religious persecution for centuries, culminating in the holocaust, but he also pointed out what many might see as lesser slights against his people. Dolinger explained that his parents were forced to pray Christian prayers when they went to public schools. These would be the same sort of Christian prayer that Senator Lombardi fought so hard for when he was on the Cranston School Committee and Senator Metts laments the removal of.

Rabbi Dolinger rebuked Metts directly with the following passage from his testimony:

“I don’t want to believe anything that anyone wants me to believe. If I did that I’d have to be a Catholic in the State of Rhode Island and have to do all sorts of other things but I’m not! I don’t believe in Jesus, and I’m not gonna. And I don’t want anybody telling me I’m going to do that, so I’m not going to tell anyone else that because I wouldn’t marry them that they can’t get married.”

Rabbi Dolinger closed his powerful and compelling testimony by reading from George Washington’s letter to the Touro Synagogue. Washington, in describing not only the United States but also Rhode Island’s key place within the Union said that our government “to bigotry gives no sanction, to persecution no assistance- but generously afford(s) to all Liberty of conscience and immunities of Citizenship.”

Many took Senator Metts and other Christian and Catholic fundamentalists to task for their intransigence on the issue, including Reverend Gene Dyszlewski, Reverend Duane Clinker, Rabbi Amy Levin, Rabbi Peter Stein and more. The clerics offered a mix of religious and secular arguments, and presented a welcome counterpoint to the intolerant drumbeat of Senator Metts, Pastors like Jay Stirnemann who stunned the crowd when he told Senator Stephen Archambault, “You don’t know God, sir!” and the omnipresent Father Healey, lobbyist for the Providence Catholic Diocese.

The downside of this kind of debate within the chambers of the State House is gives the false impression that the State House is the place for this kind of debate.

It is not.

Certainly it is difficult for people to leave their deeply held religious convictions at the door when entering into government service, but if, as Frank Lombardi maintained, you cannot “defrock yourself” of these beliefs or as Metts later claimed, “I don’t know if I can separate myself from my religion. I cannot cut myself in half” then perhaps government service is beyond the abilities of some people.

At one point in the long night of testimony Senator (or should I call him Deacon?) Metts quoted Jesus as having said “Render unto Caesar what is Caesar’s and render unto God what is God’s” to which conservative Pastor Jay Stirnemann said, “I pay my taxes.”

Isn’t it amazing that Jesus, who spoke in parables that are interpreted and reinterpreted and used to justify any manner of beliefs, in this one case was speaking quite clearly only on tax law? Is it not possible that Jesus was explaining that there is a natural separation between Caesar (government) and God (religion)?

Even Rabbi Dolinger gets this, and he’s never gonna believe in Jesus.

Supreme Court Considers Marriage Equality Debate


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What a day for the LGBT community!

The Supreme Court heard challenges to California’s Proposition 8 today, and tomorrow it will hear arguments against the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).  (The audio and transcript , if you have time to check them out!)

Let’s hope that Chief Justice John Roberts kept his gay cousin in mind during the Prop 8 argument, as she was in attendance with her partner, in seats reserved for guests of the justices.

Four Democratic senators reversed their stance on DOMA in the past several days, but unfortunately, not everyone sees the significance of this civil rights issue and have a change of heart.  There are many who refuse to even call it a “civil rights” issue.  What happened at the RI State House last week played out once more near the Supreme Court today, at an anti-gay marriage rally, when African-American pastor Rev. Bill Owens said, “I marched in this same location years ago.  They are trying to say they are suffering the same thing we suffered. They are not. … Not even close.”

Engaging in “Oppression Olympics” serves absolutely no one, and I am grateful to see public displays of solidarity in all communities across the country, and a million examples of Love for every hateful word spoken.

Fine Line Between Hate Group And ‘Faith Alliance’


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Last week, while waiting at the State House in the long line that formed to give testimony at the Senate Judiciary Marriage Equality bill hearing, I decided to check out the website of MassResistance, a group instrumental in the loud, raucous anti-Marriage Equality rally held when the House took testimony on the issue back in January and who repeated that performance for the Senate.

MassResistance, for those who don’t know, is a Southern Poverty Law Center certified anti-LGBTQ hate group headed by bigot and homophobe Brian Camenker, who just this February compared school administrators who support LGBTQ students to “Nazi concentration camp guards” and claimed that homosexuals don’t actually exist.

Imagine my surprise when State Senator Frank Lombardi, a Democrat from Cranston who sits on the Senate Judiciary Committee and an opponent of Marriage Equality, was interviewed on the MassResistance website:

Last week MassResistance spoke with Sen. Frank Lombardi (D-Cranston), one of the committee members. Sen. Lombardi, who supports traditional marriage, predicted the vote of the 10-member committee would be a tie — meaning the bill dies. But he acknowledged that it’s is only his best speculation.

I was surprised that Lombardi would consent to an interview on the website of a hate group, and wrote up a quick piece about this for RI Future from my iPad. It’s tough to format blog posts from my iPad for this site, so I asked my editor, Bob Plain, to put the finishing touches on the piece and post it. He did so, but in the process we lost the link to the MassResistance website where Senator Lombardi’s comments could be found.

In the “middle of the night” Bob received a phone call from from Senator Lombardi’s office informing him that the article I wrote was inaccurate. Senator Lombardi was claiming that he never spoke to MassResistance. Bob pulled the post pending confirmation of my source.

I conferred with Bob and sent him the link to the MassResistance website, showing that the story was accurate insomuch as MassResistance was claiming Lombardi talked to them, which Lombardi denied doing.  Obviously either MassResistance or Frank Lombardi was not being honest.

Lombardi denied talking to MassResistance, but acknowledged giving an interview to the Faith Alliance. The Faith Alliance has among its members a fair number of Evangelical churches, the Providence Catholic Diocese, the Knights of Columbus, NOM-RI and MassResistance. State Senator Harold Metts, a Democrat from Providence a member of the Senate Judiciary Committee with Lombardi, spoke at the January State House Rally in support of the Faith Alliance.

This raises some interesting questions.

Is the Faith Alliance merely an arm of MassResistance? If the unidentified writer of the piece on the MassResistance blog (I’m guessing it’s Camenker) can call people up and identify as the Faith Alliance for the purpose of interviews, doesn’t this indicate that MassResistance believes that it  speaks for all Faith Alliance members?

If MassResistance in truth cannot claim to speak for its various members, such as the Knights of Columbus and the Catholic Church, why resort to such a subterfuge when speaking to Senator Lombardi? Could it be that Camenker knows that being associated with his toxic hate group is politically poisonous and that no savvy politician would consent to talk to him otherwise?

I said way back in January, when MassResistance first entered our state and helped to form the Faith Alliance that aligning with such an odious hate group is “disgraceful.”  I later called upon Bishop Tobin to repudiate the ugly comments and hateful views of MassResistance and Brian Camenker, something the Bishop or his spokesmen have declined to do.

It is obvious why religious groups and politicians have no wish to be associated with a group like MassResistance. Their opposition to marriage equality, they say, is based on his deep commitment to faith, not on anti-LGBTQ bigotry.

The problem, of course, is that they have aligned themselves with the Faith Alliance. And the Faith Alliance, it seems, is MassResistance.

I’m reminded of an old saying about laying down with dogs…

Sen. Lombardi Interviewed On Anti-LGBT Website


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State Senator Frank Lombardi (D-Cranston), is expected to be a strong “no” vote on S0038, the Marriage Equality bill to be heard during tonight’s Senate Judiciary committee hearing. In the past he has related his vote to his strong Catholicism, but last week he was interviewed by MassResistance, an anti-LGBT hate group as identified by the Southern Poverty Law Center.

[Editor’s Note: Sen. Lombardi denies speaking with MassResistance about last night’s hearing. He said he spoke with someone from the Faith Alliance of Rhode Island. MassResistance, on its website, said he spoke with them. MassResistance is a member of the Faith Alliance of RI, as is the Catholic Church. ]

“Last week MassResistance spoke with Sen. Frank Lombardi (D-Cranston), one of the committee members. Sen. Lombardi, who supports traditional marriage, predicted the vote of the 10-member committee would be a tie — meaning the bill dies. But he acknowledged that it’s is only his best speculation.”

Lombardi also expressed concern that a second bill, S0708, which would put equality on the ballot and up for popular vote but also contains broadly worded and unconstitutional “protections” to preserve the rights of religious folks to discriminate against LGBT persons in their places of business is a “back door” attempt to slip Marriage Equality into law. Needless to say Lombardi opposes any bill that might conceivably acknowledge LGBT rights.

For his part, Brian Camenker, the Voldemort of MassResistance, is once more going to darken Rhode Island with his presence and plans to testify at tonight’s hearings. He promises that FAPSMEG, aka the Faith Alliance, http://www.psmarriagebygodri.com/index.html is planning an even bigger presence than last time.
Tonight should be quite a party.

Letter To Paiva Weed: Pass Marriage Equality Now


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Katrina Chaves, left, and her partner Caylene Pillsbury.

It must be sad and lonely being Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed these days.

Her anti-equality allies RI-NOM is being outed as liars all over the media, and Governor Chafee’s op/ed in Sunday’s Providence Journal makes clear that she is not only standing in the way of social justice, but also economic growth.

It’s worth noting that no community in the Ocean State would benefit more from same sex nuptials than Newport, and the local chamber of commerce has called on Paiva Weed to support marriage equality.

But the hardest part of being on the wrong side of history must be the real life stories of being oppressed. Here’s a copy of a letter that Katrina Chaves, a Massachusetts-based LGBTQ activist and former /future Rhode Island College student, wrote to her recently:

Dear Senator Paiva Weed,

My name is Katrina Chaves, and I am writing this letter to ask you to come out in favor of same-sex marriage, and consider the legacy you are leaving behind.  I admittedly know very little about you, and would not have been inclined to write, had I not learned of the ways in which you could potentially affect my future, and the future of my community. I urge you to publicly pledge your support, as I urge all Americans, for there is much at stake.

As a Massachusetts resident who hopes to return to the state where I graduated college, I must say that Rhode Island has given me more than I can describe in a few paragraphs. Hopefully, I have returned the favor, spending nearly a decade protesting, laughing, loving, living, and working in Providence. I plan on continuing to give back to the communities that shaped my identity and formed some of my most cherished memories. However, this will not be entirely possible, if progress is not made.

If it sounds like I am writing about the “gay marriage” issue here, let me clarify: I am not. I have never identified as gay, and will not suddenly become gay by marrying my female partner. Sexuality is far more fluid and complex than that, and (regardless of how it is portrayed) love is not black and white. It is often indifferent to gender. Intimacy can be cultivated between two people of any race, sex, class, and cultural background. I am writing about same-sex marriage because it is a personal and political issue – a civil rights issue- that impacts the quality of my life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness, as well as that of future generations.

When I marry my partner, an adventurous, witty, and hardworking Marine Corps veteran, it will not matter that she is female. As we walk down the aisle, the only thing that will matter is the love and unconditional support that we bring to each other’s lives.

As an activist, I can easily list the many ways in which society will be improved by allowing LGBTI folks like us to marry. Being the only state in New England without same-sex marriage makes RI businesses less competitive; one cannot underestimate the potential boost to our economy as a result of weddings and engagements.

Moreover, this state has a history of religious freedom and tolerance that will not be affected by legalization, which 56% of Rhode Island voters are in favor of, anyway.

Still, all logic and reason aside, it is not my goal to persuade you with a rational explanation of how the “pros” outweigh the “cons” here. Rather, I invite you to listen to your conscience, if you have one, and examine your own humanity. What are the values you stand for? How do you want to be remembered? Do you believe in doing the right thing, simply for the sake of doing the right thing? Do you believe that equality is “the right thing?”

Perhaps you have heard about former state Rep. Charles Knowles, a man who, upon much reflection, admitted he was wrong to oppose same-sex marriage. He recently testified, “I viewed my opposition basically on moral grounds, as a Christian, but I’ve also said to myself that the First Amendment separates church and state. I believe it goes both ways.

The government shouldn’t be putting its nose into my religious beliefs or lack thereof, and I think people’s religion should stay out of this building. When I was a lawmaker, I should have looked at the law and the Constitution before I made up my mind based on what was in my heart.”

As much as I appreciate his transformation and newfound support, I find his path to this conclusion a bit disheartening. I think it is our job to decide what we feel is humane, fair, and just, in a broader sense. We must let our moral compass guide us in the right direction, in any career, and follow that code of ethics even when there are repercussions. Yes, even if it makes you unpopular in political and personal spaces. Charles Knowles was not wrong because he made up his mind “based on what was in his heart.” He was wrong because his heart apparently told him that other human beings are less deserving of equality and justice.

So, I now ask you, Senator, to be honest with yourself, and with your constituents.

What does your heart say?

Sincerely,

Katrina Chaves

Why Won’t MassResistance Defend Itself Publicly


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I wrote a pair of articles (Reason, Bigotry on Display at Marriage Hearing and Tobin Aligns With Hate Group to Oppose Equality) that explored the sordid background of the Catholic Church’s new ally in their quixotic quest to deny consenting adults their right to marry who they choose. I called particular attention to Brian Camenker of the group MassResistance, a certified Southern Poverty Law Center anti-homosexual hate group. The SPLC documented a series of bigoted, hateful comments by Camenker, which Camenker, apparently denies.

I say apparently because in response to my posts Camenker wrote vigorous denials, but in the form of an email to members of his group, not on any public forum. Those who are not already members of Massresistance would not have had access to Camenker’s comments on my articles. In fact, the only way I heard about his response at all is through Gina Miller of RenewAmerica, a conservative website that functions on the intellectual level of Glenn Beck. This raises the question: why is Camenker afraid to publicly air his denials and content only to run damage control among the faithful? Could it be that his denials will not withstand public scrutiny?

Gina Miller is on Camenker’s mailing list, and in her article entitled Pray for MassResistance and marriage in Rhode Island she quotes liberally from his response to my posts. I’ll let interested readers follow the link to his defense, such as it is, and instead concentrate on one important paragraph near the end:

MassResistance has been a pro-family group serving people with traditional values in Massachusetts and other states for over 18 years. We are proud of our record of supporting marriage and family, and will stand by everything we’ve ever said or written.

Right Wing Watch documented Camenker’s appearance yesterday on the Sally Rios radio show, a propaganda arm of the American Family Association,  where the MassResistance leader and spokesman claimed that there is no proof that transgender and homosexual kids suffer bullying and harassment. He also doubted whether transgender and homosexual kids exist at all, apparently believing that LGBTQ teens are either lying or delusional about their sexual orientation.

Camenker, then, is the kind of person and MassResistance is the kind of group that Bishop Thomas Tobin, NOM-RI, the Knights of Columbus and countless other church leaders have aligned themselves with: people who actively work against the safety of our schoolchildren, denying reality in the process.

Decent people would be ashamed of such an association.

Business Community Gets Behind Marriage Equality


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From big city chief executives to small town chambers of commerce, the Rhode Island business community supports marriage equality, too.

“This is about competitiveness and creating an economic climate that allows Rhode Island to attract the best and brightest talent and employers,” said Alan Hassenfeld, former CEO of Pawtucket-based Hasbro, in a statement released today. “To be competitive, a state must create an equitable, fair and respectful environment for all of its citizens. From a business point of view, passing marriage equality just makes good sense.”

Rhode Islanders United for Marriage Equality announced today that “In recognition of the significant and positive impact marriage equality will have on the Ocean State’s economy, leaders from across the state’s business community today announced the launch of Rhode Island Business Leaders for Marriage Equality.

The most politically significant member might well be the Newport County Chamber of Commerce’s support. This means Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed will have to choose between her religion and her constituent’s economic interests when she weighs whether or not to support same sex marriage.

“The Newport County Chamber of Commerce said it best: Without marriage equality, Rhode Island puts itself at a significant economic disadvantage by not recognizing and respecting all loving, committed couples in the Ocean State,” Sally Lapides, president of Residential Properties Ltd, said in a statement. “Ours is the only New England state without marriage equality, and Rhode Island firms are losing business. That’s why we need the General Assembly to pass this important legislation.”

Another influential member of the business group for marriage equality is Providence Journal publisher Howard Sutton.

You can see the entire list here and pledge your support.

Marriage Equality Group Celebrates Valentine’s Day


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Rhode Islanders United for Marriage didn’t get to celebrate Valentine’s Day with a same sex wedding, but the broad-based grassroots group did open a new operations center so it can continue to effectively advocate for it. In addition to freelancing for the New York Times and RI Future, I’m also a wedding photographer and I’d really like to shoot the first same sex marriage in the Ocean State.

Who Is NOM And Why Do They Hate Equality?


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A picture of Brian Camenker and Chris Plante from the MassResistance! Website

The National Organization for Marriage (NOM) was formed in 2007 for the purpose of passing California’s Prop 8 prohibiting same-sex marriage. NOM RI was formed sometime between 2008 and early 2010 and announced publicly at the New England Family, Life and Marriage Summit held on February 27, 2010 at the Ocean State Baptist Church in Smithfield.

Placed in charge of NOM RI was Christopher Plante, formerly of Heritage of Rhode Island, a group that foisted a discredited and dangerous “abstinence-until-marriage” sex education program on Rhode Island schools until mysteriously closing up shop in late 2007.

In my April 2010 interview with Plante, he told me that NOM RI is unique in the NOM structure. Normally when NOM determines that a state is “under attack” by marriage equality advocates, they work with grassroots organizations that are already there, usually pro-life, “pro-family” organizations. When NOM looked at Rhode Island, they realized there was no grassroots organization to work through, so they determined to open an office here. Rhode Island is, according to Plante, where the action is.

At the New England Family, Life and Marriage Summit, extreme anti-gay hate group MassResistance! was notably absent. I was assured that the group, headed by Brian Camenker, wasn’t invited because he represented an extreme, anti-LGBT position that did not mesh with the family focused theme of the meeting.

The FRC Action Political Action Committee, the National Organization for Marriage, the Family Institute of Connecticut, Cornerstone Action of New Hampshire, and the Alliance Defense Fund were trying to present a position that defended “the traditional definition of marriage” without descending into the kind of open homophobia and hatred that MassResistance! was known for. Still, Peter Sprigg of the FRC could not help but complement the work MassResistance! had done fighting against bullying statutes that might defend LGBTQ people from abuse in schools, saying, “Give credit to MassResistance!. I don’t always agree with everything they say, but on (Gay Straight Alliance issues) they did good work.”

Of course Peter Sprigg’s FRC would join MassResistance! later that year on the Southern Poverty Law Center’s list of hate groups, anticipating in a way NOM RI’s now open relationship with Brian Camenker and MassResistance!

The media coverage of the New England Family, Life and Marriage Summit ignored the history of hateful comments made by representatives of the various groups in attendance. Though marriage equality and LGBTQ rights protesters held a peaceful protest outside the venue, the Providence Journal ran the headline “Family-advocate summit draws protesters” which made it seem like people were protesting families, not homophobia and lies. In her ProJo piece Maria Armental wrote, “One group stood outside Ocean State Baptist Church chanting pro-gay slogans Saturday. The other gathered inside the church talking policy and politics on the traditional family: a man and a woman.”

The event was held in a center attached to the church. The protest was peaceful and not disruptive in any way, I know, because until the attendees were told of the protest outside, no one inside the meeting knew it was happening. Armental set up a false dichotomy in her writing that made the protesters outside seem like extremists and the people inside the church’s function room, like Peter Sprigg, who once said that homosexual behavior should be criminalized, seem like reasonable, rational people.

Plante claims in the interview with me that NOM RI is a grassroots organization, and that all its operating costs are covered by donations made by Rhode Islanders. This is of course impossible to verify, as NOM keeps the identities of its donors secret, but Plante also says that NOM gets its donations from individuals, not groups. This is not accurate.

The Washington Independent revealed that NOM received $1.4 million from the Knights of Columbus in 2009. The Knights gave more money to NOM than they spent on charitable giving, such as food banks, that year. Think about this next time someone tells you that the KoC is a charity predisposed to doing good works in the community.

Of course, the Knights aren’t the only Catholic institution supporting NOM. The Washington Independent reports:

“You’ve got this really interesting funnel of tax-free money coming from the Dioceses and the Council of Bishops and the Knights of Columbus directly to these campaigns,” notes Phil Attey, executive director of the newly launched organization, Catholics for Equality. “Why are groups like NOM hiding where they’re getting their money? If it turns out to be a front group for the conservative side of the church, Catholics have the right to know because the majority of American Catholics, and we can show you heaps of polls, don’t support that [kind of spending].”

This close connection to the Catholic Church might be the real reason NOM has set up shop in Rhode Island, until recently the most Catholic state in the United States. Bishop Tobin of the Providence Diocese makes no secret of his opposition to marriage equality. The Catholic Church seems happy to team up with NOM, MassResistance!, the FRC and almost any other Christian groups opposed to marriage equality.

FAPSMEG, (Faith Alliance to Preserve the Sanctity of Marriage as Established by God) is an alliance of the Knights of Columbus, NOM, MassResitance! and various evangelical and Hispanic churches.  The tight working relationship between the Knights and NOM is to be expected given the money the KoC and other Catholic organizations and individuals have been pumping into NOM.

In yesterday’s Providence Journal, “State’s taxpayer coalition gives itself a makeover” questions were asked about Providence diocese lobbyist Bernard Healey’s attendance of a fundraiser for Senate President Paiva-Weed. After confirming that Healey attended the fundraiser with a complimentary ticket, diocesan spokesperson Michael Guilfoyle “stressed that as nonprofits, both the diocese and the Catholic Conference do not make political donations.”

In fact, however, the Providence Diocese does indeed make political donations, including one for $2000 to the Minnesota Catholic Conference Marriage Defense Fund (MCCMDF), which worked along side NOM and the Knights of Columbus to effectively “fund nearly 25 percent of the efforts to write discrimination against LGBT people into the state [of Minnesota’s] constitution.” Of course, this money does not specifically fund any particular candidate, but it is semantic hairsplitting to not classify such donations as political in nature.

The Human Rights Campaign has devoted an entire section of their website to NOM Exposed, tracking the shadowy money transfers and secretive support that NOM relies on. Their analysis?

NOM is not a grassroots organization.  It is run by a few anti-gay shadow donors. Its 2010 Form 990 shows the top two contributed 69% of NOM’s funding – and the top five donors 88%. In fact, the reason why NOM does not have a federal PAC – a very unusual instrument to be lacking for a Beltway advocacy organization of its size – is that it doesn’t meet the basic indicia of a grassroots organization: members.

Other than the suspect statements from Christopher Plante mentioned above, there is no reason to assume that NOM RI functions any differently than its parent organization.

On March 26th of last year NOM Exposed went public with some internal NOM documents detailing strategies in combating marriage equality. Looking for allies in their fight against marriage equality, NOM had decided on a racialist strategy: pitting blacks and Hispanics against the LGBTQ community. NOM writes:

Find, equip, energize and connect African American spokespeople for marriage, develop a media campaign around their objections to gay marriage as a civil right; provoke the gay marriage base into responding by denouncing these spokesmen and women as bigots,

and

Will the process of assimilation to the dominant Anglo culture lead Hispanics to abandon traditional family values? We must interrupt this process of assimilation by making support for marriage a key badge of Latino identity – a symbol of resistance to inappropriate assimilation.

Whether it is by intentional use of this strategy or not, Christopher Plante has achieved at least some of this end. In covering the protest FAPSMEG organized at the State house on January 15th, the MassResistance! website reports that “the Rhode Island Hispanic Ministers Association, along with several African-American pastors and a white pastor, organized a statewide multi-denominational coalition of over 100 religious organizations to oppose the bill.” The picture above shows Christopher Plante and Brian Camenker adressing the nascent FAPSMEG alliance, and is from the MassResistance! website.

Other quotes from the MassResistance! piece highlight the racialist strategy:

At the rally several Hispanic and African-American pastors spoke, as well as pro-marriage State Senator Harold Metts.

and

“There was excellent testimony on… how homosexuality has nothing to do with civil rights…”

and

Over the week leading up to the rally and public hearing, we worked with some of the leaders of the Rhode Island Hispanic Ministers Alliance. We were very impressed. They are dedicated to religious principles, they are well organized, and they are focused. They know how to pool their ideas and get things done in a relatively short time. In addition, they are not in the least afraid of offending the liberal establishment, or white liberals in general.”

and

“Too many white congregations mean well but unfortunately don’t execute. They’re afraid to talk about Biblical truth, lest it offend someone. They would often rather “pray about it” than get involved. Individuals often can’t make the time in their busy lives to go out and make a difference. They are well-meaning but don’t have zeal. And as a result they’re usually woefully disorganized and ineffective when it comes to meaningful social action.”

Christopher Plante would have us believe that Rhode Island’s Hispanic churches are all arraigned against marriage equality, and helped stage a large State House protest on the night of the House Judiciary Committee meeting to prove it. Unfortunately, Jeremy Hooper on GoodAsYou pointed out back in April 2011, “…this is *NOT* Rhode Island’s Hispanic population, writ large (around 130,655 in the latest census). It’s not even the Hispanic church as a whole.” It’s the “Hispanic Ministerial Association of Rhode Island… a non-profit corporation that most certainly hopes to increase its influence in conservative politics.” Recent polls show that 59% of Latino/Hispanic voters support marriage equality.

Racialist, bigoted and secretive politics define NOM RI. It should be clear by now that NOM RI, under the leadership of Christopher Plante, is an organization that will seemingly do and say anything to advance its anti-equality agenda. Those who choose to partner with this group do so at the peril of losing whatever putative moral authority they claim.

RIers, Church Council Support Marriage Equality


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Reverend Don Anderson

A new poll released today shows that Rhode Islanders overwhelmingly support marriage equality with almost 60 percent of the state in favor of same sex marriage.

“…voters in the state strongly support legalizing gay marriage- 57% support it to 36% who are opposed,” according to a summary of the poll results. “When we polled the state on this issue in February 2011 there was 50/41 support for it, and the 12 point increase in the margin in favor of same sex marriage reflects the national movement on this issue over the last few years.”

Said Ray Sullivan, campaign director for Rhode Islanders United for Marriage, of the positive new poll numbers:

“The poll released today by Public Policy Polling finding 57 percent of Rhode Islanders want to extend the unique protection and recognition of marriage to all Ocean State families mirrors the strong support our grassroots campaign has been hearing for months now. Support for marriage equality is strong and growing every day, as we tell the stories of our friends and neighbors who are unfairly unable to access the rights and benefits marriage bestows. Our broad coalition of organizations supporting equality looks forward to continuing to tell those stories and fight for all Rhode Island families.”

However … the other news of the day on marriage equality is that the conservative scare tactic is true: Rhode Island’s marriage laws are affecting some religion’s ability to practice how they want to. It’s just true in the opposite way they want you to believe it’s true. Rev. Don Anderson, executive director of the Rhode Island State Council of Churches explains.

“While there is broad diversity within communities of faith on this issue, many traditions choose to welcome same-sex relationships to the covenant of marriage,” he said in a statement released today. “Under current law, those open and affirming traditions are unable to do so in Rhode Island. While No church or clergy would be required by this law to contradict the teachings of their particular faith, the State Council of Churches believes those congregations who wish to perform same-sex marriages should be able to do so. We believe this is an issue of tolerance and religious liberty.”

The state Council of Churches implored the General Assembly to get on board with the rest of the state and support same sex marriage. The House passed the bill last week (watch the video here) and Gov Chafee is eager to sign it into law. Public opinion polls show Rhode Islanders overwhelmingly support marriage equality. And the Providence Journal reported yesterday that even the socially conservative state Senate would be a close vote. Meaning, the fate of marriage equality in Rhode Island rests squarely on the shoulders of Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed.

Supporters are hoping she will be swayed by the more than 300 churches represented by the state Council who feel that is “an issue social justice, civil rights and conscience,” according to the press release.

“Their endorsement is an important recognition that many Rhode Island faith traditions welcome and affirm same-sex marriages,” said Sullivan.

House Judiciary’s Historic Vote for Marriage Equality


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Here’s a short video of the historic vote in the House Judiciary Committee on Tuesday to advance legislation that would legalize same sex marriage. The House will vote on the bill Thursday. It then might lie fallow as Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman Michael McCaffrey, an opponent of marriage equality, said his committee is not likely to take up the matter until Spring.

RI Moves Closer to Equality; So Does Obama


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Gov. Chafee, Treasurer Gina Raimondo and Reps. Frank Ferri and Art Handy testify for marriage equality rights last week. (Photo by Jenny Norris)

The House Judiciary Committee moved Rhode Island closer than it has ever been to recognizing the rights of same sex couples tonight and it will likely be a fun debate on the House floor before it passes there too on Thursday.

The state Senate, of course, is a different story as it’s still unclear whether Teresa Paiva Weed will eventually side with Catholicism or equality. While she may seem adamant about being on the wrong side of history now, Democrats have been known to move pretty fast on this issue.

NBC News notes President Obama’s quick shift from being not-too-far from where the Senate President is to someone who now equates marriage equality with civil liberties.

*** Obama’s striking comments (and shift) on gay rights: Maybe the most striking (and memorable) lines of Obama’s inaugural speech were his remarks on gay rights. “‘All of us are created equal’ is the star that guides us still — just as it guided our forebears through Seneca Falls, and Selma, and Stonewall,” he said. He later added, “Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else under the law.” It’s important to remember that Obama was someone who opposed gay marriage in presidential run in ’08, and who later said he was evolving on the subject. Obama’s shift is a reflection of how quickly the politics of gay marriage have changed in this country. (The train was leaving the station, and Obama jumped on board.) And so is the fact that there has been little to no backlash to those remarks — at least so far.

 

Rep. Lima Defends Her Religion Over Equal Rights


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Today’s ProJo ran a piece on the expected passage, later today, of H5015, the Marriage Equality bill. The piece ran some quotes from Representative Charlene Lima that surprised me.

“We were sensitive to an atheist in Cranston to take down a prayer banner” she said, referring to a legal challenge that led to the removal of a prayer banner at Cranston High School West. “I don’t see why we can’t be sensitive to the Catholic Church.”

Lima’s public statements on the prayer banner, made at a school committee meeting, demonstrate anything but sensitivity.

She implored the school committee to appeal the ruling, a move that would have put the city and its struggling schools on the hook for anywhere between $250,000 and $1 million. She felt that the judge’s ruling was not justified given the facts of the case. There is no reason to believe that she has changed her opinion.

Her quote in the ProJo shows that her priorities, then, during the prayer banner kerfuffle, and now, during the debate on marriage equality, are squarely in line not with the citizens of the state of Rhode Island, but with the narrow agenda of the Roman Catholic Church.

During the hearings conducted at the house last Tuesday evening, Lima asked Father Bernard Healey about the living arrangements of married couples at Providence College. She was worried that PC would be forced, under the law, to house married gay couples, against the conscience of practicing Catholics. Father Healey had no answer for her regarding this issue. In fact, that evening, Rep. Lima was the only person to bring the issue up. Three philosophy professors from PC testified against the bill, but never brought up that particular issue.

Tobin Aligns With Hate Group to Oppose Equality


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FAPSMEG (the Faith Alliance to Preserve the Sanctity of Marriage as Established by God)  is a coalition of religious and political groups, brought together by the executive director of NOM-RI, Christopher Plante, to fight against marriage equality rights. The coalition marks the first time the local Catholic church, and perhaps the first diocese anywhere, has joined forces with an organization the Southern Poverty Law Center has identified as a hate group.

MassResistance has erroneously claimed that pro-equality groups supporting anti-bullying programs in schools “actually want to lure children into homosexuality and, very possibly, sadomasochism,” according to the SPLC. Its founder and executive director Brian Camenker has erroneously claimed that in Massachusetts “gays were trying to get legislation passed to allow sex with animals,” according to the SPLC.

In an interview yesterday, Mark Potok, a senior fellow with the Southern Poverty Law Center told me:

In our experience, it is highly unusual for the Catholic Church to work with groups like MassResistance, which has repeatedly, and utterly falsely, linked homosexuality to pedophilia, among other things. This is a group that lumps homosexuality in with criminal behaviors like bestiality, claims gay people are dangerous to children, and says, again falsely, that no gay people were murdered in the Holocaust.

I should add, however, that we’ve not seen any real history of the Catholic Church working with hate groups. It may be that in this case they’ve simply failed to look into the background of the group they’re allying themselves with. At least I hope so.

I hope so as well.

I call upon Bishop Thomas Tobin and the Providence Diocese to repudiate the ugly comments and hateful views of MassResistance and Brian Camenker. I would hope that this alliance was made in haste and in error, and that the Catholic Church would not want to make alliances with groups that put to a lie the Bishop’s assertion that individuals with same-sex attraction are to be treated with respect.

The Roman Catholic position on same-sex marriage is well known. They  believe it is sinful and are against it. But as Bishop Thomas Tobin states, in an editorial reprinted on the FAPSMEG website:

It’s important to emphasize once again, however, that while rejecting homosexual activity, the Catholic Church has consistently promoted respect and pastoral care for individuals with same-sex attraction. They are children of God and our brothers and sisters.

This is the concept of hating the sin but not the sinner, and I get that. MassResistance, under the leadership of Brian Camenker, does not share this sentiment.

Equal Rights, Bible Square Off In Marriage Hearing


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Pat Baker and Deb Tevyaw testify before the House Judiciary Committee in 2011 when the debate was about civil unions. (Photo by Bob Plain)

State House hearings on same sex marriage can be a pretty surreal scene; about half of the people will testify about equal rights under the law and the other half will testify about what it says in the Bible.

Seriously, this isn’t hyperbole. This is really how these things go down. Last year, Chris Young said marriage equality was a secret plot by communists to end capitalist procreation and Rev. Jay Stirnemann, a Pentecostal priest from Tiverton, warned that we would invite “God’s judgement” by allowing for equal relationship laws.

The year before that, Pat Baker testified that she had terminal cancer and wanted to legally marry her longtime partner before she died. Stirnemann testified that year too. Watch this video from the 2011 debate over civil unions at the House Judiciary Committee:

Baker died before marriage equality become law in Rhode Island. She won’t be able to testify again this year.

But rest assured Rev. Stirnemann will be there again today to testify about what he thinks it says in the Bible. That’s why it’s so important that progressives are there to testify about equal protection under the law.

 

Local Leaders Unite for Equality, Sans Paiva Weed


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Ray Sullivan, of Marriage Equality Rhode Island, and Gov. Chafee celebrate his executive order recognizing same sex marriages from other states. (Photo by Bob Plain)

There’s a new coalition fighting for same sex marriage rights in Rhode Island and it consists of just about every political leader in the state except for Senate President Teresa Paiva Weed. She’s the only one left who still doesn’t support equality.

Rhode Islanders United for Marriage includes Gov. Linc Chafee, Lt. Gov. Elizabeth Roberts, General Treasurer Gina Raimondo, Secretary of State Ralph Mollis, Providence Mayor Angel Taveras and a host of legislators. They, along with many progressive and religious leaders, will be at the Central Congregational Church in Providence this morning rallying support for the state to end its separate but equal relationship rights era.

It’s a show of force, to be sure.

And it makes sense – not only is it the right thing to do, it’s also a popular position in the Ocean State. A WPRI poll shows more than 56 percent of Rhode Island residents support same sex marriage rights and only 36 percent oppose them. There is a mandate for marriage equality.

Hopefully all of these leaders are lobbying Paiva Weed behind the scenes about how her bigoted stance against equality will affect her legacy, as well as the rest of her career. I’m certain I’m not alone in not wanting someone who stands in the way of equal rights under the law from ever being a judge…

 

 


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